dont know what to do with my girlfriend, she had feeling for her ex???

[venom9sm]

here is my senario.......im stephen, stephen has a gf, well just call her girl! girl and stephen got in a fight.... girl begins to doubt things, and starts to think about what if she never broke up with her ex bf. stephen tells her that maybe she should talk to her ex and see how she feels, but stephen doesnt want this to happen because he loves girl and doesnt want anything to happen. well girl "doesnt" talk to her ex, but stephen gets an email the other night with a survery about how you feel about a person, you know like how caring they are and stuff like that. well i know a guy sent it to her and so i did something i shouldnt have......i checked her email......only to find that she filled one out for her ex. who was the original one that sent the survey to her...and this is what the survey said....this is what kim wrote about her ex.......

 

Fill this out about ME **BUT FIRST** Send a blank copy to all of

>your friends (including me) so they can fill it out about you!

> **AM I??**

>ugly? nope

>kind? sometimes

>quiet? seriously most of the time

>loud? uh not really

>shy? hahah can be really shy

>weird? ummm eh

>selfish? no

>crazy? yes

>hot? very

>cute? cute like little boy cute? no

>pretty? oh yes very pretty...lol

>sexy? um yeah

>loving? at times very

>nice? sometimes

>mean? can be

>immature? sometimes...rarely

>rude? no

>honest? very honest

>cool? yes

>brat? no

>stupid? heck no better at math than i am

>caring? yeah

>mature? can be

>a friend? yeah

>more than a friend? used to be

>talkative? rarely

>boring? no

>beautiful? actually yeah

>creative? i dont think so

>smart? yeah

>a bitch? no

>flirt? not really

>slutty? um no

>a psycho? no

>athletic? uh yeah

>confusing? yes

>sweet? can be

>attractive? very

>annoying? no not really

>funny? yes

>laid back? pretty much

>perfect? almost

> **JUST SOME QUESTIONS**

>What is my phone #?: i dont know

>Do u think I'll get married?: someday

>Who do you think I will marry?: whoever you love

>When is my birthday?: i have no clue november?...or april

>Who is my best friend?: jake.....

>Where did we meet?: math class

>How long have you known me?: almost two yrs

>Have you ever had a dream about me?: i wouldnt know

>What song (if any) reminds you of me? ooh ....island in the sun by weezer

>Whats my favourite colour? blue?

>If you could change one thing about me what would it be? your hottness

>Describe me in 3-5 words: tan, amazing, cool

>Do u think I'm a virgin?: yes

>If u could tell me one last thing what would it be?: wish things were different

>If u could ask me anything..what would it be?: can we have kids?

>Whats your best and worst memory with me? being with you, breaking up with you and losing you

>

>

>

> **PERSONAL (OPPOSITE SEX ONLY)**

>1. I am the ___most open/blunt________ person you know:

>2. Would u like to kiss me?: yes actually i was going to the other day

>3. Do you want to be my bf/gf ?: um......i cant say

>4. a) Do u ever think about me off-line?: yes

>b) On a scale of 1-10 (10 being high), how much do you think of me

>each day?: 3

>5. a) Would you ever ask me out?: no

>b) Right now, what is the chance of that happening (in %): 0

>6. a) Have you ever had a crush on me?: hahhahaha crush...thats and understatement

>b) How far would you go with me? um...wow....i think you know

>b) Do you still?: do i still what

> **EVERYBODY**

>Do u wish we were closer?: yes

 

 

 

i know she didnt mean everything she said but some things just mad me mad. i mean was i wrong doing what i was doing, i dunno it sounds like she wants him more that she wants me.....i wish someone could tell me how to handle it!man i wanna just die and be happy cause i dont like the pain.

[orange county]

I think you are probably too young to worry about this. Why do you have a girlfriend anyway? Play the field!

 

After reading that questionnaire it looks like she really wants this guy but odds are the other guy doesn’t want her anymore. It appears that she is offering herself to him, so you will soon have your answer.

[mintjulep]

so much for not using kim's name, eh?

 

You sound young, which doesn't make it hurt less, but means that in a few years, this will be a mere whisp of a memory, and you probably will have moved on.

 

You shouldn't have been snooping.

 

Period.

 

Curiosity killed the cat, stephen. Get over it, or let her go. She deserves better from you, anyway.