Author northern_sky Posted January 5, 2011 Author Share Posted January 5, 2011 I really don't understand why some women complain so often on this forum why they cannot get an LTR. They are either unattractive overweight ogresses or harbor major personal issues that cripple their prospects, and are in self-denial about either or both of these pitiful shortcomings. Any woman who hasn't ever been married by 25 to 30 years old is a loser but it doesn't mean I'm going to throw up a thread bashing such whinging whining women. What is this "whinge" word y'all use? Is it a UK thing? At first I thought people were just bad spellers. Link to post Share on other sites
OceanGirl Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 I really don't understand why some women complain so often on this forum why they cannot get an LTR. They are either unattractive overweight ogresses or harbor major personal issues that cripple their prospects, and are in self-denial about either or both of these pitiful shortcomings. Any woman who hasn't ever been married by 25 to 30 years old is a loser but it doesn't mean I'm going to throw up a thread bashing such whinging whining women. Wow seriously And I 100% agree with the OP. Every guy I know in real life who is even below average looking has no problem getting girls for sex. And it's usually girls that are much more attractive than them. So when I read about men on LS that are rejected by everyone they meet - I have to wonder what is wrong with them. It has to be something major. Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 I really don't understand why some women complain so often on this forum why they cannot get an LTR. They are either unattractive overweight ogresses or harbor major personal issues that cripple their prospects, and are in self-denial about either or both of these pitiful shortcomings. Any woman who hasn't ever been married by 25 to 30 years old is a loser but it doesn't mean I'm going to throw up a thread bashing such whinging whining women. Uh, oh, spaghetti-o's ! Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Wow seriously And I 100% agree with the OP. Every guy I know in real life who is even below average looking has no problem getting girls for sex. And it's usually girls that are much more attractive than them. So when I read about men on LS that are rejected by everyone they meet - I have to wonder what is wrong with them. It has to be something major. Just like there is something majorly wrong with you women who can't get in a steady LTR. I see women getting in them all the time around me, so what's wrong you women who bitch on LS? Can't you see how flawed your logic is? Link to post Share on other sites
OceanGirl Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I even have a co-worker who is well below average looking. He is short, skinny, bad acne problem and incredibly bitter. He couldn't get women for sex in every day life - but then he joined online dating and is now getting laid on regular basis. So I really wonder WTH is wrong here. Link to post Share on other sites
OceanGirl Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Just like there is something majorly wrong with you women who can't get in a steady LTR. I see women getting in them all the time around me, so what's wrong you women who bitch on LS? Can't you see how flawed your logic is? I admit to having issues that I am working on. I don't go around hating on men for it. Yet, you all seem to women-hate rather than take one good, hard, look at yourself. And also LTRs are MUCH harder to find especially if you have standards. Sure, there are women settling all over the place - I refuse to settle. I could be in LTR tomorrow if I settled (even with all my issues). Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 And I really wonder why women can't into a steady LTR. I've seen humongous, fat chicks who smelled like rotten bananas and bean dip get into an LTR, and wonder why it's so hard for the rest of them, unless they were seriously messed in the head. Link to post Share on other sites
OceanGirl Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 And I really wonder why women can't into a steady LTR. I've seen humongous, fat chicks who smelled like rotten bananas and bean dip get into an LTR, and wonder why it's so hard for the rest of them, unless they were seriously messed in the head. Or they are very picky and refuse to SETTLE for just anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I admit to having issues that I am working on. I don't go around hating on men for it. Yet, you all seem to women-hate rather than take one good, hard, look at yourself. And also LTRs are MUCH harder to find especially if you have standards. Sure, there are women settling all over the place - I refuse to settle. I could be in LTR tomorrow if I settled (even with all my issues). I don't ever hate on women here. But getting laid is something a lot of men struggle with, including myself a while back, and it's something that women have ZERO problem with. It's a struggle women will truly never see or experience for themselves. Just like I won't ever see or experience what women go through. In fact, I'll bet many of the men who complain about getting laid are desperate for ANY female contact whatsoever. Even just a second date. For women, it's a question of standards for the men who approach you. For men, it's a question of hoping a woman accepts you and your approach. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I even have a co-worker who is well below average looking. He is short, skinny, bad acne problem and incredibly bitter. He couldn't get women for sex in every day life - but then he joined online dating and is now getting laid on regular basis. So I really wonder WTH is wrong here. Hes gasp short and skinny Its amazing they dont put him in zoos for people to watch from a distance:rolleyes: I dont buy your theory that Men are with women above their league either most copules are close to the same level of attractiveness Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I haven't heard one guy say to other guys: what's the matter with you guys, women are throwing themselves at just about anyone, so what's your problem? This is only coming from women here on LS. When I hear "...Every guy I know in real life who is even below average looking has no problem getting girls for sex..." coming from another guy, I might start taking it seriously. Men, I'm all ears. Link to post Share on other sites
Stockalone Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 ...about how hard it is for them to get laid. Boohoo hoo. (I am female btw.) Those guys will eventually learn that LS isn't really the place to complain about things that most women don't agree with. Granted, some guys really seem to believe that women should have to sleep with them simply because men "need" sex and because they were nice enough not to rape those women. I can see why women would be annoyed by this. Sadly, but as usual, this sort of thread turns into a gender war, where the real issues aren't even talked about by both sides. That said, I am also amazed by the amount of ridicule and insults that is directed at men (even those who don't blame women for their problems) who can't get laid or can't get dates. Apparently, most people think that men shouldn't comlpain about such problems. My point is sex is easy to get for most people. It's LTRs with desirables that are more elusive. A lot of people aren't interested in random screws. If one has no standards at all, then I agree with you that sex shouldn't be so difficult to come by. However, I read an article about involuntary celibacy some time ago, and some people apparently really do try but have no success at all. I am not surprised that long-term, this can mess with someone's psyche. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I haven't heard one guy say to other guys: what's the matter with you guys, women are throwing themselves at just about anyone, so what's your problem? This is only coming from women here on LS. When I hear "...Every guy I know in real life who is even below average looking has no problem getting girls for sex..." coming from another guy, I might start taking it seriously. Men, I'm all ears. lol i dont see it at all,i see mostly really good looking guys,maybe very rarely an average or slightly above with charisma getd allot of women but its mostly the same smsll group of really good looking Men who get most of the attention Dont get me wrong i see average and ugly couples but theyre at the same level of attratciveness Ocean Girl claiming ugly and medicore guys can get sex whenver they want and with good looking woomen is hillarious though shes admitted shes only attracted to amazingly hot guys so maybe to her any guy whos a 7 or under thast with a women is a ugly or average guy getitng laid Link to post Share on other sites
PJKino Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Men are suppsoed to be unflapapble unemotional robots who arent bothered by anything and have no questions in life.. This board is one of the few places where its ok to vent for a Man becasue society shuns us for it and even hear Men are chastised and put down for venting or havign quesitons about their issues with the oppsoite sex.. Theyres a few whackjob women on here who write a daily journal and show how crazy they are in delaing with the oppsoite sex if it was a Man doing that hed be killed for it right away but because its awomen shes allowed to vent and is coddled.. Link to post Share on other sites
OceanGirl Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 OK, I better leave this thread now before it turns into a nasty gender war Link to post Share on other sites
kdark Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 OK, I better leave this thread now before it turns into a nasty gender war Did you honestly expect anything less from a thread with a title like that? All I was trying to do was fan the fire with my posts... Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I have to bitch on these boards about men who ..wonder about how hard it is for them to get laid. there, no wasted words... Link to post Share on other sites
AverageJoe Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 (edited) It really isnt true that females can get laid easier than a male. For instance the other day. I saw this...this gremlin (post midnight) the other day.*shudder* Hideous. I even think I saw a penis run past me in a sprinting fashion that could rival Adrian Peterson. It was screaming! Can you imagine that? A screaming penis. And I thought I have seen it all. This wooly mammoth...ugh I have seen better faces on an iodine bottle. If my guess is right, she probably has some difficulty getting some petercillian for her malignancy. Edited January 6, 2011 by AverageJoe Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I have to bitch on these boards about men who ..wonder about how hard it is for them to get laid. there, no wasted words... Thank you Carhill. OP was this thread meant just to kick up the insecure men on this board? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 ...about how hard it is for them to get laid. Boohoo hoo. (I am female btw.) Try going without sex for a couple of years and lets see how unsympathetic you are. While women as a whole are less easy than men, there are loads of sluts happy to avail their male counterparts at the local pub on a Saturday night. I live in a city with an girl's college, and you should see how aggressive some of these young ladies get. I've tried the bar and club thing and has absolutely zero luck. Eventhen I really want to have an actualy relationship and that's not going to happen with somebody I meet in a bar. I know plenty of guys who are totally average and can easily find free sex if they want it on a given night. If a guy is at all attractive, he can have a field day. Online dating is another easy way for guys to fill their nights with passion. Take a second to think about all the average guys who can't get free sex on any given night. Truly, from what I've observed, it's not that hard for a guy to get laid (in general, not necessarily with who they might want) if he possesses even 1 of the following: *Good looks *Charisma *Wit/verbal talent/smooth talker/funny *Money/high-powered job *A good amount of effort Even men without those can still get laid if they go to the right place, where people are drunk and lonely, and they have relatively low standards. But the issue I have with this whole line of whining is that they act like men NEED to get laid or they'll wither up and die or something. That's a good list. The only thing I have is effort and sadly it doesn't count for crap. When I really want something, I can be really persistent and I keep trying. Unfortunately it doesn't work with women. BTW, men who don't get laid won't wither up and die, but they certainly wish they did. Sex is a necessary but still only a small part of the equation. If I wanted to, I could get an escort every month, but if that was my only contact with women, I'd still be sad and lonely. But getting laid is something a lot of men struggle with, including myself a while back, and it's something that women have ZERO problem with. It's a struggle women will truly never see or experience for themselves. Just like I won't ever see or experience what women go through. I fully agree In fact, I'll bet many of the men who complain about getting laid are desperate for ANY female contact whatsoever. Even just a second date. For women, it's a question of standards for the men who approach you. For men, it's a question of hoping a woman accepts you and your approach. I've been alone for so long. The desperate need for female contact is the reason why I put up with girls who disrespect me. It's why I put in so much effort trying to win over somebody who obviously doesn't like me. I take a couples dance class; salsa or social dance at my college, every semester. And that class is usually the only time where I get to have a woman in my arms Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 BTW, OP, I just felt this desire to do an anagram with the thread title; no reflection on the content at all, rather me having some fun. I haven't been 'laid' in two years, voluntarily, so really have no dog in the fight. I can empathize with the various perspectives, though I don't have to wonder about those of the men, having lived that for many years. It is what it is. Eventually, one works things out. Link to post Share on other sites
Mad Max Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Thank you Carhill. OP was this thread meant just to kick up the insecure men on this board? It was done to create an argument. The thread title alone is confrontational. Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 It was done to create an argument. The thread title alone is confrontational. Word. I don't think the men on here who express their issues with getting laid really dislike women. Most of the time, they're simply venting; it happens. You do have a few who go overboard, but both the women and men are usually dramatic over one issue or another, and take turns in salting up the forums. Taking a swipe at struggling men does nothing but create even more problems. Seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
Surrealist Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 You know OP really needs to understand that if she wants people to be sympathetic and understanding of her issues, then starting confrontational threads that bash a certain segment of the opposite gender is a poor investment toward getting it. Now I'm seeing why she does cop some flak from other members, she creates her own problems. Btw, I just happen to know a woman with two heads, scaling skin, with severe oral gangrene and missing teeth (in both heads mind u) with a matching diabolical personality that complements her hideous deformities, and yet, she just happens to be in an amazing romantically loving long-term relationship with a wonderful good looking studious man who absolutely adores her. Just goes to show, any woman can get into an LTR, unless the said woman has some major, major issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Mad Max Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 You know OP really needs to understand that if she wants people to be sympathetic and understanding of her issues, then starting confrontational threads that bash a certain segment of the opposite gender is a poor investment toward getting it. Now I'm seeing why she does cop some flak from other members, she creates her own problems. Bingo. Like I said in her other thread; As much as I want to sympathize with her, I just can't. Link to post Share on other sites
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