jpyankees22 Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Wow, I'm not even sure where to start here and I know this will be long but please bear with me. I am a 26 year old male and she is 20, we've been dating for 2 years. She has been madly in love with me the whole time, buying me expensive gifts and taking me on trips and what not. I hadn't been very thoughtful or caring towards her and a lot of times I was downright mean to her. So after 2 years of this she had been contacted by a dude on facebook and they hit off from there. Talked for about a month and then she decided I didn't treat her right anymore and decided she would end it. We didn't see each other for about a week and she finally came over and said her goodbyes to me before she went to have sex with this guy for the first time. Needless to say I am devestated. I did the begging and pleading and the ultimatums...all the wrong moves but she continued to talk to me and come see me for two months and she decided to sleep with both of us the whole time. She would claim she didn't want to date him and that she loved me but continued to see both of us. Finally she started seeing me more and spending the night at my house. By this time, he had already gotten in good with her family and they love him (they hate me). She has told him in front of me to leave her alone and he says he will wait however long it takes for her to come back. So finally we decide we will get back together as long as there is no contact between them. We made it about 2 months and I had been suspicious of her the whole entire time. I decided to put spyware on her phone and see if my suspicions were correct. Guess what? They were. She had been seeing this guy the whole 2 months and cheating on me. I finally caught her and confronted her after I went out and had sex with someone out of spite. We had a huge arguement and I didn't speak to her for two days. She blew up my phone those two days and I finally talked to her and she came over and we had sex to make up. She admitted to me she went and had sex with him after she found out I had done the same out of spite. That was 4 weeks ago. She claims they haven't talked but I still have my suspicions. I still track her phone and they don't text any more and he will call now and again but I feel like she's contacting him still using some other form of communication. I feel like he's stopping by when I'm working. I don;t know what to do. There is more to this but that is basically the jist of the story. PLEASE HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
Author jpyankees22 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Share Posted January 7, 2011 (edited) Me and him have texted several times and he says that I'm in the dark but yet she spends every single minute with me when I'm not working and never blows me off. He says he isn;t going away and I can't understand why. He says he loves her and thinks I treat her like ****. He just stops by and calls her when I'm not around (he knows my work hours). She is hot and cold with me a lot but we always seem to have sex and she still makes me feel like its only me and her. IDK WHAT TO THINK :-( Edited January 7, 2011 by jpyankees22 Link to post Share on other sites
seibert253 Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Read my, and the others replies in your other post. Link to post Share on other sites
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