Author CrueLa Posted January 17, 2011 Author Share Posted January 17, 2011 That's good you have another point of contact just to make sure he's okay. Keep us updated. Will do. Thanks for checkin in. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrueLa Posted January 24, 2011 Author Share Posted January 24, 2011 That's good you have another point of contact just to make sure he's okay. Keep us updated. Well...3 weeks and still nothing. It hurts to even say this but maybe it's really over for us. Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 Wow...unreal. Did the friend have any luck in reaching him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrueLa Posted January 25, 2011 Author Share Posted January 25, 2011 Wow...unreal. Did the friend have any luck in reaching him? I don't think he has tried. I haven't really talked to him. It costs me to call him coz he's in New Zealand. It'll cost his bestfriend to call him too coz he's in the US. But I will try to call and ask him tomorrow. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrueLa Posted January 29, 2011 Author Share Posted January 29, 2011 Wow...unreal. Did the friend have any luck in reaching him? He tried to call him a few days ago but he didnt answer his call either. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrueLa Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 He tried to call him a few days ago but he didnt answer his call either. He finally called...to tell me that he's going out of town for a month and won't have his phone on him. Said he has a lot of stuff in his head and needs some time away from everything. He didn't want to talk about us. I tried to ask him but he said we'll just talk about it when he gets back. So he's leaving first thing tomorrow. Link to post Share on other sites
heartshaped Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 He finally called...to tell me that he's going out of town for a month and won't have his phone on him. Said he has a lot of stuff in his head and needs some time away from everything. He didn't want to talk about us. I tried to ask him but he said we'll just talk about it when he gets back. So he's leaving first thing tomorrow. Are you sure you want there to be an "us"? How long did he go without talking to you or returning your calls? Link to post Share on other sites
VanHalen Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 I'm really sorry to hear that... I'm not going to say that everything is going to work out with this guy because I honestly don't know, even though maybe that's the only thing that you want to hear right now. I'm only going to say that you'll be OK. Maybe he comes back, maybe not. Just start moving on... Knowing that you won't be talking to him in one whole month should be better than the desperation of not knowing why he wasn't calling you all this time. I promise you that by the end of the month you'll be doing a lot better and with your thoughts more clear (probably you'll be the one blowing him off!). Believe me, I've been through 4 break-ups, and each one hurt as much as the previous one. I know that sounds horrible, but what I really mean is that every girl in my life was as important (or more) than the previous one. Right now you won't be able to see that, but you'll get there. Just tell us how you're felling as the days go by... Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 All I can say is wow. Any reason why he won't be taking his phone? There really isn't any good reason I can think of but that's besides the point. In my opinion, after everything he's done, this "relationship" isn't worth your time. If he doesn't take his phone, he effectively cuts off all communication with you and everyone else. Did he acknowledge or respond to your letter? Regardless of what he's going through right now, you deserve some sort of explanation (whether it's a good one or not). For him to just call and not want to talk and to go away again without contact speaks volumes of where he puts you and your relationship in his life. I would move on; you seem like a really good person who deserves so much better than how he's treated you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrueLa Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 Are you sure you want there to be an "us"? How long did he go without talking to you or returning your calls? Like a month... Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrueLa Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 I'm really sorry to hear that... I'm not going to say that everything is going to work out with this guy because I honestly don't know, even though maybe that's the only thing that you want to hear right now. I'm only going to say that you'll be OK. Maybe he comes back, maybe not. Just start moving on... Knowing that you won't be talking to him in one whole month should be better than the desperation of not knowing why he wasn't calling you all this time. I promise you that by the end of the month you'll be doing a lot better and with your thoughts more clear (probably you'll be the one blowing him off!). Believe me, I've been through 4 break-ups, and each one hurt as much as the previous one. I know that sounds horrible, but what I really mean is that every girl in my life was as important (or more) than the previous one. Right now you won't be able to see that, but you'll get there. Just tell us how you're felling as the days go by... Thank you. I agree.. It is better. I'm glad he called and told me what's going on. I'm worried about him. I feel like he's really having a hard time figuring out what to do with his life and our "relationship". His bestfriend told me that when he was here he didn't really want to join the navy. I think that's what his dad wants him to do. He said he had a lot of things in his head but just can't talk to me about it yet. If things don't work out with him and I, it is going to suck but I know I'll be ok. I've been through worse. Doesn't mean this is going to hurt any less coz you really never get used to the pain but if I got through my previous exp, I know I'll get through this. Link to post Share on other sites
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