Draco81 Posted March 19, 2004 Share Posted March 19, 2004 I miss and still think about my exgirlfriend that i lost 3month ago. Went out with her for about a year things were wounderful until late december 2003 when she told me she needed space and left me out of the blue. She told me she LOVED me so many times, that is probably one of the reason i still think about her. I need answers from her, I'm confused what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
Haak Jai Posted March 19, 2004 Share Posted March 19, 2004 I'm there right now man. Been over a month now after 2 and a half years together, no problems with the relationship. Just needed space all of a sudden. I know how hard it is. She says she still loves you so you keep wondering when she's going to come around. Don't have much advice except what others will probably agree with, do things for yourself in the mean time, treat the situation as if it's over. Otherwise, you'll never get over it. If she comes back, great (if you're still available) if not at least your healing. Even though I understand how to approach it, it's still hard. I guess it's 'cause you still love that person. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
from ND Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 I want answers about my situation too. I guess more will be revealed in time, I usually write things down, maybe write her a letter. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 You should have asked her 1-2 weeks after the break up. Hrmmm..3 months ago. She probably expects you to move on already. Most of the time when women tell you that they want their "Space and time" they are telling you... Goodbye it was nice knowing you. This is their way of not hurting you as bad. If it makes you feel better call her and ask away. I too had many questions for my ex. However, I answered those questions myself. Expect the worse and you will be able to move on quicker. It's closure that you need. I had the liberty to give myself that closure. Do what you must so that you can get this closure you are seeking for. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Draco81 Posted March 20, 2004 Author Share Posted March 20, 2004 Thank you guys for sharing some of your thoughts and point of view of the situation. I guess its really time to move on and only time will tell, I have a gut feeling that i will run into her one day and if that day comes should i talk to her or not. damn this girl really did brake my heart. Link to post Share on other sites
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