hopefulguy Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 Theres a girl ive known for 6 years as a friend. She lives in another state, and my friends and siblings are close with her as well. We use to communicate online almost everyday. We were friends but always flirted. Fast foward to a few months ago. She visited us twice within the last few months. We hit it off. We both showed how interested we were in eachother. And said we had strong feelings. She cried when we said goodbye. We started posting up romatic things on our facebooks. We're both hopeless romatics. However, shes super hot, has alot of guys chasing her...so i knew it wasnt gonna be easy. We started texting everyday after she left. Shes a very busy person....so everytime i text, a few times it seemed like shes busy. Or maybe it could be shes playing hard to get or wants me to call? That went on for 2 weeks....then i got busy, texted her less, i thought i was bugging her. When we talked, she also told me she was dating someone, but it was a dead end type of thing. She didnt mention it till i asked something. Thats also when i kinda backed off on chasing her. Its been a month since she was here, now we havent been talking at all, probably once, twice in the last week or 2. She said shes been mia from everyone with personal problems. I believe her and respect that, but just want to know where her feelings are. My siblings also said she didnt reply. I then concluded that she wasnt as into me as i thougth she was. I know that she told all her friends about me. So i didnt know what the problem was. Maybe cause i havent called and thinks im not interested as she is?? I also have facebook, and i have alot of friends that are girls. I posted up some pictures of me and a friend, but shes just a friend. That same day i did, she texted me a smiley face. And after that started to reply less and less. And when i posted a pic of me and the girl by ourselves the other day, the next day she change her profile picture to her and the guy shes dating. And has been posting alot of things about love. It really hurt me and is making me jealous. Did i make her jealous unintentionally? Or is she now just not interested and worked things out with that guy. Does she think im player? Is she playing me? Should i have chased her more? Shes very close to me as a friend, so i thought she wouldnt ever play me or hurt me like that. Cause thats the way i feel about her. I felt in love with her already. I love her as a friend, and was hoping to seek more than that with her. No matter the distance. I just dont wanna mess up our friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 Uh...she's not playing games...she's dating another dude...her saying it's a "dead end type of thing" is just her way of keeping you on her "hook"...reference How I Met Your Mother, Season 5, Episode 16, "Hooked"... Seriously...LAUNCH... Link to post Share on other sites
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