baby boo im hooked u Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color] well me and my ex(for now)have been dating for 2-3 months and i like him a lot we met in hawaii and all i was there for a weeding and he for family reunion (we both live in washington) we were in the same complex and well he is best friends with my best guy friend and i really like this guy a lot and all and we got into a huge fight about him not wanting me to go to where he lives cuz well we live about an hour apart from eachother but he didnt want me and my friend to go down there cuz it would go against his friends and out of nowhere he said i wanna break up we never see eachother and he still wants to be friends but im moving like a little more closer to him and i want to see him all the time but i want him back how do i get him back? Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 That's got to be the longest run-on sentence known to mankind. If you want people to read your post, and respond, try some punctuation already. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 Damn, I tried to make sense of this but it's straining an already cataract-clouded eye. Sorry. I must say, though, the first time I heard of a significant someone referred to as a "boo" (can't remember which song exactly, but it was a duet) I couldn't stop laughing. How on earth did that term come about? Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 befuddled is right about the punctuation, put in her usual gentle manner!! Is this right: 1. You met a guy in Hawaii. 2. You went to Hawaii for a wedding, he for a family reunion. 3. You both live in Washington, but 1 hour apart 4. You have been dating for 2-3 months. 5. You got into a fight because he didn't want you to visit him at his home. 6. His reason for this is that you and your friend visiting him would "go against his friends". 7. This led to him breaking up with you. 8. You are about to move closer to where he lives and want to get back with him. Questions: 1. Where have you been dating up until now? 2. Why would you visiting go against his friends? 3. Why did he say he was breaking up with you? I must say, if he's so keen for you not to visit his home, I would worry about what there is there that he doesn't want you to see. A girlfriend, perhaps??? Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 Thanks, gaia - that does help. Also - if this guy is best friends with your best male friend, what does he have to say about it? Seems to me he wasn't against your seeing this guy. The best friend is part of this same circle of friends, isn't he? Link to post Share on other sites
Author baby boo im hooked u Posted March 20, 2004 Author Share Posted March 20, 2004 Originally posted by reasontosigh Thanks, gaia - that does help. Also - if this guy is best friends with your best male friend, what does he have to say about it? Seems to me he wasn't against your seeing this guy. The best friend is part of this same circle of friends, isn't he? yes he is best friends with my male friend but i dont kno and i was going to visit him at school not at home.he is somewhat against it he says when shana and i get together we are to imachure. Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 Thanks reasontosigh, I knew I'd missed something off the list!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author baby boo im hooked u Posted March 20, 2004 Author Share Posted March 20, 2004 Originally posted by gaia befuddled is right about the punctuation, put in her usual gentle manner!! Is this right: 1. You met a guy in Hawaii. 2. You went to Hawaii for a wedding, he for a family reunion. 3. You both live in Washington, but 1 hour apart 4. You have been dating for 2-3 months. 5. You got into a fight because he didn't want you to visit him at his home. 6. His reason for this is that you and your friend visiting him would "go against his friends". 7. This led to him breaking up with you. 8. You are about to move closer to where he lives and want to get back with him. Questions: 1. Where have you been dating up until now? 2. Why would you visiting go against his friends? 3. Why did he say he was breaking up with you? I must say, if he's so keen for you not to visit his home, I would worry about what there is there that he doesn't want you to see. A girlfriend, perhaps??? he didnt want me to visit him at school.i dont kno he says when im with shana im to immachure.because we hardly ever see eachother! Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 So you can visit if you leave Shana and your immaturity at home? Perhaps it is best if you don't move closer and concentrate on schooling, such as grammar? Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 Sorry, I'm still a bit confused. he didnt want me to visit him at school. Do you mean school as in "school" or "college"? Does he live at school? If not, have you been to his home? Do you mean that the fact that you spend so little time together is the reason he gave for the break up"? Is your "immaturity" when you're with Shana the reason that you visiting would go against his friends? I'm sorry if I seem to be a bit obsessional (I am, but that's another story) but I am having trouble figuring this out Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 You are definitely not alone in your confusion, gaia. I was still trying to figure out which one's Shana! I'd better go brew some more coffee. Link to post Share on other sites
Author baby boo im hooked u Posted March 20, 2004 Author Share Posted March 20, 2004 Originally posted by gaia Sorry, I'm still a bit confused. Do you mean school as in "school" or "college"? Does he live at school? If not, have you been to his home? Do you mean that the fact that you spend so little time together is the reason he gave for the break up"? Is your "immaturity" when you're with Shana the reason that you visiting would go against his friends? I'm sorry if I seem to be a bit obsessional (I am, but that's another story) but I am having trouble figuring this out school high school.well we dont get to see eachother very often so he said thats why we broke up.well we dont think we are immachure we just kno how to have fun.shana is my best friend that is a female. Link to post Share on other sites
Author baby boo im hooked u Posted March 20, 2004 Author Share Posted March 20, 2004 Originally posted by sportsloving So you can visit if you leave Shana and your immaturity at home? Perhaps it is best if you don't move closer and concentrate on schooling, such as grammar? i can actually wright really well i just dont feel like it, its a weekend! well i dont kno i never asked him that. Link to post Share on other sites
ldybg51 Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 im·ma·ture adj. Not fully grown or developed. See Synonyms at young. Marked by or suggesting a lack of normal maturity: silly, immature behavior. write (v. wrote, (rt) writ·ten, (rtn) also writ (rt) writ·ing, writes v. tr. To form (letters, words, or symbols) on a surface such as paper with an instrument such as a pen... Thats all I've got... Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 Originally posted by ldybg51 im·ma·ture adj. Not fully grown or developed. See Synonyms at young. Marked by or suggesting a lack of normal maturity: silly, immature behavior. write (v. wrote, (rt) writ·ten, (rtn) also writ (rt) writ·ing, writes v. tr. To form (letters, words, or symbols) on a surface such as paper with an instrument such as a pen... Thats all I've got... *snicker* I thought by High school, teens knew the basic fundamentals of spelling and punctuation? Oh dear, the world is going to hell in a handbasket! Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 You still haven't told me where you dated and whether your immaturity with Shana is the reason visiting him would go against your mates. So you can visit if you leave Shana and your immaturity at home? This, too, is a good (but unanswered) question. I am much older than you and fear that I will have to go to bed before I get anywhere near really understanding what is going on here Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 Maybe they don't teach the basics anymore... oh wait, that can't be right, my kids can spell. Hmmm I understand it's a weekend, heck I live for them, but if you are looking for advice and trying to get your point across to others... you should spend a few moments using the spell checker (right next to the submit button). Then the rest of us don't have to spend the next few hours reading what you wrote-scratching our heads and wondering who is who... blah blah. Anyways, I really stand by what I said, forget the boy, concentrate on school. Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted March 20, 2004 Share Posted March 20, 2004 I am much older than you and fear that I will have to go to bed before I get anywhere near really understanding what is going on here Agreed. My poor brain gets to tired with things such as this... why ask for advice if you can't answer the questions that help us answer your question? Or you just hoping to read what you want to hear? Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted March 21, 2004 Share Posted March 21, 2004 I am much older than you and fear that I will have to go to bed before I get anywhere near really understanding what is going on here I was right. Goodnight! Link to post Share on other sites
gaia Posted March 22, 2004 Share Posted March 22, 2004 I know you've had some harsh words, but I really would like to understand what's going on and try to help Link to post Share on other sites
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