going out to dinner with my ex girlfriend tonight

[manolo]

Hello everybody,

 

I posted a thread a few months ago in the breaking up section of this site. Well anyway me and my ex is going to dinner tonight to talk about things. I know she is still seeing someone new. I will try my hardest on not bringing up his name tonight because it upsets me to even think of her beinging with someone else. Well anyway wish me luck and yall please reply back to me and give me some advise especially you ladies. How should I act, I should I react if she brings the new guys name in the conversation, where should I take her to dinner, how should I look, should I buy her flowers, take her to a nice place or even go out for drinks after dinner, please reply. Thanks.

[hurtingandconfused]

Act normal, if she brings up "his" name act casual. Take her out to somewhere where you would usually go. I don't think that flowers would be appropriate. Look sharp, confident, and strong. Yes, take her for some drinks afterwards, I think that's a good idea.

[miscel]

Well I think you are brave going out to dinner with your ex when you know she is seeing someone else. I wouldn't do it. Why did you agree to go out with her anyway? If you are still hurting I don't think it's very wise to do this. I think it's too soon. I believe a person should be completely over the other before trying to be friends again. It gives the hurt ones too much false hope. They are still blinded and hope in their hearts that this person will come back even if you know that they are seeing someone new. But I wish you all the luck in the world and try to stay positive and don't show that you are still hurting. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that it bothers you that she is seeing someone new. Stay true to yourself. You are what matters most right now. Your healing and going on anew.