Does my boyfriends lack of enthusiasm to spend time with me = He's not that into me??

[Nexus One]

If people don't want to post, THAN DON'T! wtf. Don't post to say your not going to post.

 

I wouldn't be posting this if you hadn't repeated this error over and over again:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_difference_between_then_and_than

 

Not that I care, but your guy being an engineer will notice such (little) things. I'm just saving you from intellectual embarrassment. Hey I don't have a superhero as my avatar just because it looks cool.

[depplover_1980]

I wouldn't be posting this if you hadn't repeated this error over and over again:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_difference_between_then_and_than

 

Not that I care, but your guy being an engineer will notice such (little) things. I'm just saving you from intellectual embarrassment. Hey I don't have a superhero as my avatar just because it looks cool.

 

Hey do you fancy a cyber hook up, you are just my type.

[SarcasticBlonde]

I wouldn't be posting this if you hadn't repeated this error over and over again:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_difference_between_then_and_than

 

Not that I care, but your guy being an engineer will notice such (little) things. I'm just saving you from intellectual embarrassment. Hey I don't have a superhero as my avatar just because it looks cool.

 

Ok Grammar police.

[SarcasticBlonde]

I wouldn't be posting this if you hadn't repeated this error over and over again:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_difference_between_then_and_than

 

Not that I care, but your guy being an engineer will notice such (little) things. I'm just saving you from intellectual embarrassment. Hey I don't have a superhero as my avatar just because it looks cool.

 

I'm not embarrassed by that. And if it bothers someone else that much, OH WELL!

[ConflictedGuy27]

I got a compatible solution for you, blondie.

 

ready for it?

 

go out & date other men.

brilliant, I know.

 

it's the only way for you, I'm convinced. dating other guys'll keep you busy and probably help you better decide, objectively (through direct comparison), whether or not you even want to be with engineer guy.

 

that you in the avatar? if so, I'd hit that; & so would the rest of the male sex, quite frankly. so go out & have a good time. it'll get your mind off things and you may even meet a more compatible guy.

 

time to play, OP. do it!

[SarcasticBlonde]

I got a compatible solution for you, blondie.

 

ready for it?

 

go out & date other men.

brilliant, I know.

 

it's the only way for you, I'm convinced. dating other guys'll keep you busy and probably help you better decide, objectively (through direct comparison), whether or not you even want to be with engineer guy.

 

that you in the avatar? if so, I'd hit that; & so would the rest of the male sex, quite frankly. so go out & have a good time. it'll get your mind off things and you may even meet a more compatible guy.

 

time to play, OP. do it!

 

Yes that's me. I'm going out this weekend. I will try my best to have a good time. More of a going out "with the girls" good time. Not go out and "bang whatever looks at me" good time.

[SarcasticBlonde]

I got a compatible solution for you,

 

it's the only way for you, I'm convinced. dating other guys'll keep you busy and probably help you better decide, objectively (through direct comparison), whether or not you even want to be with engineer guy.

 

 

time to play, OP. do it!

 

 

that would be considered cheating. Than comes karma. I couldn't do that unless I communicated it to him that I was moving on. And if I did, it would just be for fun, not love. Not sure I'm ready.

[ConflictedGuy27]

that would be considered cheating. Than comes karma. I couldn't do that unless I communicated it to him that I was moving on. And if I did, it would just be for fun, not love. Not sure I'm ready.

 

save that speech till after you're married & miserable. till then, no, it isn't "cheating", & no, you don't need to tell him anything -- he asked for time alone to think, remember?

 

no sense in torturing yourself while you give him what he asked for.

[SarcasticBlonde]

save that speech till after you're married & miserable. till then, no, it isn't "cheating", & no, you don't need to tell him anything -- he asked for time alone to think, remember?

 

no sense in torturing yourself while you give him what he asked for.

 

Not going out with other men, isn't torturing myself. But I asked him if he was planning on seeing what else was out there and that concept was foreign to him. He didn't look at this as a break up, so I'm not going to go there.

[ConflictedGuy27]

and why'd you pull the "...I'd hit that" part out of my quote??

 

that hurts my feelings.

I thought we had something special, blondie.

[SarcasticBlonde]

and why'd you pull the "...I'd hit that" part out of my quote??

 

that hurts my feelings.

I thought we had something special, blondie.

 

!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Jannah]

I got a compatible solution for you, blondie.

 

ready for it?

 

go out & date other men.

brilliant, I know.

 

it's the only way for you, I'm convinced. dating other guys'll keep you busy and probably help you better decide, objectively (through direct comparison), whether or not you even want to be with engineer guy.

 

that you in the avatar? if so, I'd hit that; & so would the rest of the male sex, quite frankly. so go out & have a good time. it'll get your mind off things and you may even meet a more compatible guy.

 

time to play, OP. do it!

 

Advising her to go out with other men when she is still in a committed relationship, isn't very helpful and neither is hitting on her. OP and her BF had a disagreement a few days ago, that doesn't mean she should be welcoming new men into her life at this point.

[depplover_1980]

Conflictedguy is funny and he may have a point! While her fella is thinking, he may well be tasting other fruits himself. Though I wouldn't recommend going out with the sole intention to pull a man, I would remain open to any hot guys that came over to talk if I were blondie.

[Nexus One]

Hey do you fancy a cyber hook up, you are just my type.

 

If you want you may e-mail me at the e-mail address in the image/link below, for a friendly chat, can't promise anything beyond that:

 

http://tinyurl.com/4dmh5xj

[SarcasticBlonde]

Conflictedguy is funny and he may have a point! While her fella is thinking, he may well be tasting other fruits himself. Though I wouldn't recommend going out with the sole intention to pull a man, I would remain open to any hot guys that came over to talk if I were blondie.

 

I'm 99% sure he isn't. That would be against everything he stands for.

[depplover_1980]

I'm 99% sure he isn't. That would be against everything he stands for.

 

Me too, I doubt it as he is struggling with meeting the expectations of one woman!! But do enjoy yourself this weekend.

[SarcasticBlonde]

Me too, I doubt it as he is struggling with meeting the expectations of one woman!! But do enjoy yourself this weekend.

 

Weekend starts at 8pm tonight!

 

It took him being here 3 years to go out with someone (me). He's not into bars, clubs, etc. So unless he is doing the online thing behind my back, I feel confident, he won't be a douche and cheat.

[depplover_1980]

If you want you may e-mail me at the e-mail address in the image/link below, for a friendly chat, can't promise anything beyond that:

 

http://tinyurl.com/4dmh5xj

 

I was kidding though I admire your straightforward thinking, those that tackle life in a logical manner alway get my juices flowing, plus anyone that wants to be a superhero gets my vote.

[depplover_1980]

Weekend starts at 8pm tonight!

 

It took him being here 3 years to go out with someone (me). He's not into bars, clubs, etc. So unless he is doing the online thing behind my back, I feel confident, he won't be a douche and cheat.

 

Girl get out your chair with me now and spin round and have a dance. Life is for living, not moping about people that don't appreciate you so twirls all round!!

[SarcasticBlonde]

Girl get out your chair with me now and spin round and have a dance. Life is for living, not moping about people that don't appreciate you so twirls all round!!

 

 

I don't know if alcohol will be a downer or upper for me tonight

[SarcasticBlonde]

I don't use facebook, (I know I know) He does. I have seen his page when he has used it, at his place.

 

For the first time EVER, I wished I did use it, so I could see if he took pictures of us down, off his page. As well as his status. lol. I know...pathetic.

[Nexus One]

I was kidding though I admire your straightforward thinking, those that tackle life in a logical manner alway get my juices flowing, plus anyone that wants to be a superhero gets my vote.

 

Oh man, this situation gave me a good laugh. Made my day.

 

PS: I like your posts too.

[depplover_1980]

Maybe have one or two drinks but not much more or it will be a downer, the last thing you need to do it sit around crying to your friends! Make sure you look super pretty though and wear one of your fav dresses etc.

 

It's a good job you can't see Facebook then isn't it? You would be so upset if he had changed anything, which I don't think he would have even had time to consider yet. From what you have said about him that would be the last thing on his mind, as he is not that kind of thinker.

[Jannah]

Yes. OP, you should wear a shirt where we can almost see your cooch.

 

[SarcasticBlonde]

Yes. OP, you should wear a shirt where we can almost see your cooch.

 

 

 

Pull a Britney? nah. Too cold here to do that.