tobydog1 Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 Russell I thought you had 2 daughters, now you have a son as well? Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 10, 2011 Author Share Posted February 10, 2011 Russell I thought you had 2 daughters, now you have a son as well? Yes I have a 14 year old son who lives in Sweden! Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 10, 2011 Author Share Posted February 10, 2011 Yes I have a 14 year old son who lives in Sweden! And yes I have two daughters with my current wife, one is 18 months the other. Is 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 10, 2011 Author Share Posted February 10, 2011 First day of NC IS over, it was hard not responding to her texts but i did it! Link to post Share on other sites
sammyd Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 Good man, well done! This is the start of the new you:) Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 First day of NC IS over, it was hard not responding to her texts but i did it! Excellent! Link to post Share on other sites
worldgonewrong Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 What would you suggest Read the past 38 pages of advice and stick with it. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 How long do you think I should give her to make up her mind? my deadline would have been yesterday... Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 First day of NC IS over, it was hard not responding to her texts but i did it! Bravo, but as I said be prepared for anything. Be unavailable this weekend, go out and do stuff for yourself. Just brace yourself for a knock on the door at 6am on sat morning!! You need to be able to handle this without being a jerk. She will try to suck you into a row. She comes round on Sat morn, and says "Rusell lets go out as a family"( she will play the guilt card with the kids I promise you) Your reply, " Wife I'd love to but I've made plans and need to be on a train to London in 20 minutes, bye" then leave. Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Share Posted February 11, 2011 (edited) Bravo, but as I said be prepared for anything. Be unavailable this weekend, go out and do stuff for yourself. Just brace yourself for a knock on the door at 6am on sat morning!! You need to be able to handle this without being a jerk. She will try to suck you into a row. She comes round on Sat morn, and says "Rusell lets go out as a family"( she will play the guilt card with the kids I promise you) Your reply, " Wife I'd love to but I've made plans and need to be on a train to London in 20 minutes, bye" then leave RobI think she is too proud to come over, I was half expecting her last night, but I think she was angry that I haven't responded to her texts,Will be interesting to see what happens, but I think she will take it on the chin and not contact me this weekend! As a person in general she is very spiteful and petty![ Edited February 11, 2011 by russell1968 Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 Great, I think it will be mucbh better for you to have the weekend without her Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Share Posted February 11, 2011 Great, I think it will be mucbh better for you to have the weekend without her Ok Rob! Lets do it properly, no f*****g about! Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Share Posted February 11, 2011 Rob, Do i mention the ultimatum, or just forget about it? Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 Rob, Do i mention the ultimatum, or just forget about it? you know my thoughts. Don't mention it!! but please no communication with her this weekend.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Share Posted February 11, 2011 Ok I promise I won't Link to post Share on other sites
UnsureinSeattle Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 You've already stated your position to her. No need to reiterate it. Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 if your wife only knew there was a 40 page thread about her on a relationship message board Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Share Posted February 11, 2011 if your wife only knew there was a 40 page thread about her on a relationship message board Thats about 40 more pages than she deserves ! But she would **** if she knew Link to post Share on other sites
sammyd Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 Good luck Russell, come on, you can do this!! Link to post Share on other sites
worldgonewrong Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 I'm rooting for you, Russell! We all are! Link to post Share on other sites
Binster Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 C'mon Russ N/C all the way Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Share Posted February 11, 2011 C'mon Russ N/C all the way Two days NC woop-woop! Bloody hard, mind is racing! I think i have turned into a right softy. I havent heard a thing from her today! Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted February 12, 2011 Share Posted February 12, 2011 I havent heard a thing from her today! Ohh , you will!! If I'm wrong consider it a bonus Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell1968 Posted February 12, 2011 Author Share Posted February 12, 2011 Ohh , you will!! If I'm wrong consider it a bonus Rob, it's nice not dealing with her drama,But N/c is bloody hard Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted February 12, 2011 Share Posted February 12, 2011 you're scared to death of losing her... I know because I've already lost my wife and its a sh*t place to be. you're scared of not living with your daughters and not being able to see them every day. i know, i completely relate. keep doing the right things and hopefully you'll get a good result. Link to post Share on other sites
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