josyjosy Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 Yes, it has something to do with facebook. I know i shouldve deleted him and i know i shouldnt be checking his profile. I blocked him off my newsfeed which helped me tremendously. But of course, its so easy to just type his name on the search bar. I have been tempted to delete my ex for a while but i couldnt because of the memories. Old messages and comments. Not that i read them but im happy that theyre still there. As you know, facebook has this "friendship" button which makes stalking even easier. From there you can see our wall to wall so its easy to see that he deleted my comments. I noticed for a while now that he has deleted my comments but not all of them. I knew it was probably coz he didnt have enough time. Those were 2 years worth of comments. And today, i noticed he deleted ALL of them already. And it really hurts. Not only did he take all that time going back to his old comments just to delete every comment i wrote for him and every status he wrote about me. It wasnt even about deleting the comments but it was the fact that it shows me even more that he really has no more feelings for me because its so easy for him to delete them. But how serious he is with his new gf. I mean i know hes so happy and madly in love with her. I know for sure he's serious about her and probably thinking she's the one. But i didnt think he would go to the point of deleting all my old comments especially having to go back to my comments even before we started going out and deleted them all just for her. Maybe now its time to delete him because obviously, there are no more memories left of us there anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Kansas Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 You MUST, MUST, MUST block him from FB. I can feel your pain. It's bad enough to have to endure someone you love telling you they don't want to be with your, don't watch the play by play of them wiping you from their life. It's grueling. Spare yourself the pain. Link to post Share on other sites
Rose T Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 He may have blocked you at some point, then reversed the action. The action of blocking removes all your comments / history, so the "see friendship" command then shows nothing. So he may not have sat down to eliminate all your comments one by one. But Kansas is right - you have to delete him. Otherwise you end up like Lady Shallot helplessly watching the life of Camelot in her magic mirror while she's trapped in her tower. Bad, bad, bad for your healing! Break the mirror. Get out and walk in new streets. It will get better. Link to post Share on other sites
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