quietGuy13 Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Social pros is what icall people who have been social pros since their childhood. can easily make friends and get gf , get jobs, pass job interview etc. night clubs and cafes are good way for social pros to make friends. but for inexperienced awkward unsocial people who want to try to make friends, night clubs and CAFEs are just not good. In those places you are expected to have this outgoing personality and know what you are talking about. I really think FRIENDless people's club would be great. Just places where nice people can meet. No expectations, and everyone just nice. Maybe even start people off in computers chatting in text. then after a while of chatting, can step to the next room and meet face to face. kindof like 1 on 1 text chats in the web. have you noticed how easy it is to make friends in text chat? It seems starting conversation face to face is what keeps us quiet/awekward/unexperienced people from getting anywhere in the process. But look how easy it is in chats. just my idea. cause people say go to Cafe's or the supermarket. oh please. all girls expect any guy that approaches them to be already mature and a good speaker. Link to post Share on other sites
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Just join Toastmasters or a volunteer group. You'll make plenty of friends in no time. Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Friendless people clubs... Don't most MMO games (WoW, LotRO, EvE) fit that to a T? Just kidding... I play WoW Link to post Share on other sites
Nightsky Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 A friendless person club probably exists, but the reason it’s not more common is probably the negativity of such a name. There are plenty of clubs aimed at people with quirky interest who may or may not be socially awkward. I suggest you get involved with the things that interest you and meet others who share that interest. Night clubs obviously are not for every one. Link to post Share on other sites
CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Share Posted February 11, 2011 I only hvae one friend I do not see much. I have no family at all. I live on my own by the sea surrounded by fields and nowhere to go and nobody to see except for that one friend. I used to ring a free counselling line when I felt very lonely it drove me potty that although I would explain the situation to them and tell them that I am bright and good at problem solving and decisions they would start making their famous suggestions. i.e. go to clubs. How do you do that when you live out in the middle of nowhere? One suggested I move even though I had already made it clear I had no money and moving would cost a fortune. It would have also meant losing the one good friend I had. Having no friends does not mean that you are inadequate and cannot make decisions or plans, it means you are lonely. I work on the computer and people send me emails and pay me to write back. So I am not an idiot. But I do not want to sit at the computer all day every day, I want someone to meet up with or chat to on phone too. And it would be very stupid to meet clients, they always nag you to meet them so that they can get freebie sessions with you, so no thanks to that. Link to post Share on other sites
wademach1977 Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 That sounds like a neat idea having clubs for people looking for friends. Link to post Share on other sites
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