juliejeanes Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 my husband will get served next week for child and spousal support. the judge will give him a choice to either come home or pay. I dont know how he is going to react when he gets the papers. He has already threatened to burn down my house bc i went to a lawyer. I know I am stupid but damnit i love him bc he use to be so good to me and love me b4 he came home from iraq and i got pg. I just dont understand how he has chose to leave me and his newly born son. I just know there is another girl trying to win him over and talks bad about me telling him im no good for him although I have been wonderful to him. Has anyone been in this kind of situation. Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 use to be so good to me That man is gone. Really look at who/what he is today. Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 um, threatening to burn your house down is a bit, uh.. whats the word I'm looking for.. CRAZY Link to post Share on other sites
Soxfaninfl Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 um, threatening to burn your house down is a bit, uh.. whats the word I'm looking for.. CRAZY Seriousley why would you want to be with someone that has threaten you with body harm? Link to post Share on other sites
comethemorning Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 Sounds like your X is suffering from PTSD. And that is serious. Especially if he is threatening you with physical harm. Sorry, but you should not allow him anywhere near you or your son until he gets some serious help. And get a restraining order while you are at it. And how can a judge order someone to go home if they refuse to pay?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 Sounds like your X is suffering from PTSD. And that is serious. Especially if he is threatening you with physical harm. Sorry, but you should not allow him anywhere near you or your son until he gets some serious help. And get a restraining order while you are at it. And how can a judge order someone to go home if they refuse to pay?!? Yeah if he's threatening to burn the house down he needs some help. I would probably alert the authorities of that statement too... you never know if he plans to make good on it. You gotta think of you and your sweet little baby! Link to post Share on other sites
Author juliejeanes Posted January 24, 2011 Author Share Posted January 24, 2011 I still love him very much. I think he is severely depressed and I cannot see how it is bc of me. I think Iraq has changed him considerably. He went to the VA and was told he did not have PTSD (which I dont believe) they did say he has anger problems and adjustment issues with being at home. I did call the police and filed a report. I dont know who to turn to. Do I go to the national guard and let them know about what is going on? Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 No. Go to the Chaplain of the branch he serves. He will know exactly how to handle. Do it now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author juliejeanes Posted January 26, 2011 Author Share Posted January 26, 2011 ok thanks a bunches Link to post Share on other sites
Author juliejeanes Posted January 27, 2011 Author Share Posted January 27, 2011 I called and spoke to the chaplain and he was a lot of help. He is going to talk to some ppl in my husbands group and see what he can find out and he will be giving him a call. I also spoke to my husbands sergeants wife and the sergeant is going to call him and try to talk to him to see what is going on and also bc he missed drill this weekend. I asked him not to mention my name or that I spoke to him bc I dont want him getting angry with me. He stated he would not and he will start talking about y he missed drill and go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
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