Not Concupiscible Posted January 22, 2011 Share Posted January 22, 2011 My husband and I have been married for almost 7 months now. We were madly in love before we got married and we had never slept with eachother. Once we got married, everything started to change. He is no longer romantic. He never does anything for me anymore. I have to beg to get any attention from him anymore. Everything other than me is so important. One of the main reasons I feel as though he doesn't want to do anything for me is the fact that we don't even really have sex. It's been this way ever since we got married. He states that it's because he's not a sexual guy but I wonder if he is possibly in love with another woman who he used to be with. They like to text and message eachother in private and he keeps it a secret from me even though when I do find out, it's not sexual or even romantic. They are speaking of their families and her boyfriend, etc. Or I wonder if he is possibly a closet gay because it just seems as though he has no idea how to be attracted to me in the least. I just don't know what to do at this point. Please give me some advice, someone. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodamnpragmatic Posted January 22, 2011 Share Posted January 22, 2011 (edited) My husband and I have been married for almost 7 months now. We were madly in love before we got married and we had never slept with eachother. Once we got married, everything started to change. He is no longer romantic. He never does anything for me anymore. I have to beg to get any attention from him anymore. Everything other than me is so important. One of the main reasons I feel as though he doesn't want to do anything for me is the fact that we don't even really have sex. It's been this way ever since we got married. He states that it's because he's not a sexual guy but I wonder if he is possibly in love with another woman who he used to be with. They like to text and message eachother in private and he keeps it a secret from me even though when I do find out, it's not sexual or even romantic. They are speaking of their families and her boyfriend, etc. Or I wonder if he is possibly a closet gay because it just seems as though he has no idea how to be attracted to me in the least. I just don't know what to do at this point. Please give me some advice, someone. But what constitutes madly in love? To me it is wanting to spend all your time together, share your life, dreams, needs, feelings and thoughts.... And oh yea to physically want to jump each other's bones;)..... I think you did not have that and convinced yourself otherwise..... And yes I think he is gay (always do in these cases)..... Edited January 22, 2011 by Toodamnpragmatic Link to post Share on other sites
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