still in LoVE????????

[kandi13]

Ok 3 years ago I met the Love of my life we have been thru so much stuff and we went out 4 times now. He lives 50 mins away and he is 3 years older then me. We hardly talk anymore. Last time I talked to him was bout a month ago which doesnt sound long at all but.....I use to be obsessed and we talked everyday. I use to always have a feeling we were definatly soulmates and even though we dont talk I still have a feeling but dont think bout it all that much...I hope that makes sense oh boy!! Well any way even though I dont think about him that much but felt a connection when we were 2gether does that mean there may still be a chance for him and I? I use to think I cant live with out him and now i have a feeling I can but I still love him

[calithin83]

went out 4 times???what ?

[autumnsconfused]

I dont quite understand what u'r saying but your connection may not be as strong as you think if after a month you still dont feel like before a month isnt that long and if u love him as much as u think .. it would take much more time in my opinion . why arent ya'll talking anyways???? maybe if ya'll spend time talking you'd be able to answer your questions??? maybe ya'll grown apart and ya'll just arent the same people.

[reasontosigh]

OK, I think I can connect a dot or two...

 

You're 15, he's 18

 

You live 50 minutes apart

 

You've seen each other face-to-face 4 times in the 3 years you've known each other.

 

Last time I talked to him was bout a month ago which doesnt sound long at all but.....

 

Sounds like an eternity to me for two people who have spoken everyday previously.

 

I think he's got other things going on in his life which, unfortunately for you, are not going to include you.

 

maybe ya'll grown apart and ya'll just arent the same people.

 

That is the theory I am leaning towards as well.