Kamila Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 Hello all, this is my first message on this forum, i hope someone can help me with this issue is have: I was together with boyfriend for 2.5 years. We live 1.5 hour away from each other. Six months ago i broke it off with him because he didn't want to put our relationship to a next level. He had doubts about us and didn't want to live with me. In the beginning of the relationship everything was good, we talked about projects together and so on. But then i saw his insecurities and his weird behavior. I made him feel inferior due to the fact i studied for a masters and have a good job. Two weeks before the breakup i made him decide what he wanted out of 'us'. He said he wanted to focus on himself and i wasn't obliged to stay with him. He didn't want me with him. I was free to go he said. So i left. He still wanted us to be friends because he didn't want to lose me. He kept sending 'are you alright?' messages and even on new year's eve he sent me a message with x's. I didn't reply to the last one, because i'm so hurt. I really love him, but he's not giving me space to move on. Or if he really cared for me and wanted us to be together why isn't he making a move or why isn't he showing something? He said he has fear of commitment and all. Well i'm afraid that him not being with me is killing me from the inside. After 6 months, i'm still hooked. I dream about him, wake up thinking of him, sleep with him in my thoughts. I'm emotionally tired. Why am i not still over him? Why does he contact me? What does he want? It's been almost a month since the last message he sent and i dread the day he'll contact me again. *sigh What should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
pandagirl Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 It's not the answer you want to hear, and it's easier said than done, but you just have to try to move on and forget about him. I sometimes feel the same way as you do; I still think about my ex all the time and miss him a lot, but what other choice is there than to move on? Despite my feelings, I refuse to let the "thought" of someone hold me back. It comes in increments. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
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