tom_gbr Posted March 22, 2004 Share Posted March 22, 2004 as ive posted before my girlfriend of six months finished with me two weeks a go cause of many reasons. She said because of the age gap ( 4 years ) we both wanted different things from life right now. Me being 20 and she being 16 it's true as girls of her age dont seem to have long relationships, it's just not what they want. Also she is having a lot of problems at home and doesn't really need a boyfriend in her life right now and she also said that she can't appreciate me and that she doesnt want to be with me anymore. It also made if difficult seeing each other because we live 2 hours apart. I still love her very much and would do anything to get her back. I changed my life for her so much and lived to see her at the weekend. Since we broke up we havent actually seen each other as she finished it on the phone which i think is a terrible way to break up with someone. We were talking the other night about me going up to see her this wednesday and what we could do just as friends. We then had a big arguement as she thought that me seeing her for six hours was too long cause friends dont see each other for six hours. I can back with that we had been more than friends and that we had been together for six months. The arguement got even more heated as she said it was too soon for me to come up and see her and that she doesn twant me all upset and begging for her back. The phone call ended quite badly. An hour later she sent me a text message saying ' babe im sorry. i do want to see you wednesday, i miss you. im just worried im not strong enough to leave you when i see you and i dont want you to go right back to square one ' This is now giving me mixed signals, what should i do? She says that she doesnt want to be with me anymore and that we arnt gonna get back together but she sends a message like that. what should i be thinking when i go to see her? what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted March 22, 2004 Share Posted March 22, 2004 You should tell her to make up her mind once and for all and that you will behave henceforth according to what she decides so she can't change her mind anymore. Then stick to it. Link to post Share on other sites
tom_gbr Posted March 22, 2004 Share Posted March 22, 2004 the the thing is she said on the phone thats ' it's a bad idea me coming up as you are gonna be begging for me to take you back, and it's not gonna happen. We are not gonna get back together. ' But then that text message messed me head up! She says she wants to see me wednesday and that she is missing me and she's gonna find it hard to let go. Whats that about! im so confused Link to post Share on other sites
Troubled15 Posted March 22, 2004 Share Posted March 22, 2004 my ex girlfriend has told me a cuple of times she missed me in her txt dosnt mean she wants u back though. i think you shudnt go to her house to be honest. By the sound of it you would like more than friends and i think its going to hurt when ure not going to get what ure trully looking for. i did the same thing as you, went to my ex's house to see her not even over her having that small glimmer of hope somthing good may happen infact it was worse instead of acting strong i was weak and i talked about the past (bad idea) just makes getting over her longer in my opinion. try your best to get over her im not one to talk im still getting over mine peace dude Link to post Share on other sites
tom_gbr Posted March 22, 2004 Share Posted March 22, 2004 what do you mean by talking about the past? are you talking about things that have happened to jepardise the relationship at some point or are you talking about memories. As when I go i just really wanted to have a laugh with her about the old times and what we have done together. I know i shouldnt go and see her but since we broke up over the phone whcih was a really crappy way of doing it it would be really nice to just see her. Link to post Share on other sites
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