lonely79 Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 I am just coming down from a wonderful visit with my SO.....he came here for the weekend, arrived thursday night and is leaving tomorrow AM. His parents live here and he had to spend a night with them (tonight). we had such a great time together and I see myself in love with him in about 2 minutes. (if anyone doesnt know my story, just search for my other posts, but long story short - we are a new couple but knew each other through work before he moved and we discovered our crazy chemistry right after (like days) he had already decided to move away) i am really really really trying to take this slow and not declare love so fast - im the type of person who falls fast and hard. im really really trying this time. But I am not even exaggerating when I say that the way I feel when Im with him is unlike anything I have ever felt before. EVER! and thats not coming from some newbie - im 32, been in lots of relationships, been married, etc. The feelings I have with him are crazy. And we have so much in common and he makes me laugh constantly and we cant get enough of each other... we had some good talks when he was here, and while we still have absolutely no solution at all to our distance, neither one of us is willing to call it quits just yet. we both want to see where it goes and we are hoping that a solution will present itself. Since we are so new, i have been feeling lately like maybe he wants to stop this LDR thing, ive been having insecurities but he really made me feel better. I swear I love him already! omg what am I gonna do!? i know this week is gonna be hard, after such a great time with him. our next visit is in about 4.5 weeks, im going there! it seems SO FAR AWAY!!!!! I guess I just wanted to share how i was feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 Hope you enjoy the rest of your time together and I'm happy to hear everything went so well. Just take things slow and enjoy your new found romance as everything is still so new. It sounds like you'll be able to see each other about once per month or so...that's pretty much the schedule my boyfriend and I are on right now. It's tough, but definitely doable. The time right after the visit can be the worst, but at least you have another in the works right away! That always keeps me going and four weeks will fly by in no time. Best of luck to you both! Link to post Share on other sites
heartbeats4u Posted January 31, 2011 Share Posted January 31, 2011 I'm happy for you. It sounds like you have got something special going. If you're serious about it, don't let go because of distance. True love endures. Link to post Share on other sites
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