Fiona Posted March 23, 2004 Share Posted March 23, 2004 Hi, I'm a Romanian girl studying in Paris. A few months ago I left my boyfriend back home with whom I had a long great relationship - 4 years. It seems to me I was in a rush to meet new people, because I'm 23 and I've been faithfull to him. He was also the first man in my life. I am already seeing this guy - not really into wasting my time... Is just that my ex was also my best friend, we were doing everything together, from living together to calling each other all the time and talking about everything. IT was a good thing - our breaking up, as I want to continue my studies here and he has his career in Romania. That and the fact that I didn't love him anymore. It had became this very comfortable thing, with him so dedicated to me and me more and more unappreciative, you know, being a terrible girlfriend but a great friend. And now, as the flavour of my new life is starting to wear off... I really really miss him. Can't blame him for not wanting to hear from me. Most of the foreign students here are all into parties - which is great, but not for making friends, more for making out:). So I've been to so many parties that I've already had all hadaches for the next 20 years. Unfortunately it turns out I'm more into quality than into quality. I can't do nothing but wait for this phase (me missing my friend) to end, right? Thanks for listening, Fiona Link to post Share on other sites
nikkilove Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 reminds me of the saying "don't know what you've got 'til it's gone.....", a large part of your life has ended so to speak, and you are feeling the void. I'm not sure by your post if you want him back or not, but even if you did, does he still want you? Take this as a learning experience, and grow. If you want him back, maybe you can open the lines of communication through email and occasional phone calls, and see if he is receptive. Good luck. Don't beat yourself up about this, you ended it because you "didn't love him", but that doesn't mean you won't grieve the loss. Even if you are the one who ended the relationship, you still need time to grieve the loss. The loss of the relationsip, companionship, friendship etc. In time, you will move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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