tobydog1 Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 He gave me a few crumbs a few weeks ago, I sadly ate them and went around to where he is living now, maybe with the old slapper. Since then, nothing from him at all. was it all BS? Complex back story.... Also I have been NC but the other night I sent him a picture of us all in the summer, in Knaresborough on the river. He was happy and healthy, we all were. I just sent the pic. Then another, with a few words about how I would have him back and blah blah. Is this a good strategy? I know he still loves me deep down and is somhow trapped in this house of inquity....... I love him with all my heart and just want him back with us..... He is a very ill and unhappy man and I know he wants back...... Should I hire a PI to see if he really is having a rel with this old slag? Then at least I can get some closure and try to get on a bit x Link to post Share on other sites
worlybear Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 And what will you do if you find out that he is having a relationship with some old"slapper?" Will it give you peace of mind or make you feel worse? If he wanted to be with you- he would come back. But, as you said , he has offered you "crumbs." Do you seriously think that you and your son are only worth left-overs?!! Be strong. Move on. We're here for you.:bunny::bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
just_some_guy Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 I know I've been harsh on you Toby, so I will try to say this in a kind way. This notion of strategy, of how to play the game, tug on the emotions, manipulate him and the situation: Bad approach. This is what got you where you are, right now, ain't it? What about self-examination, growth, honesty? I know he still loves me deep down and is somhow trapped in this house of inquity....... I love him with all my heart and just want him back with us..... He is a very ill and unhappy man and I know he wants back...... Should I hire a PI to see if he really is having a rel with this old slag? Then at least I can get some closure and try to get on a bit This does not smack of healthiness. I'd run like hell too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tobydog1 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 JSG------him or me? !!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author tobydog1 Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 made the decision..... I am divorcing him, the ball is all in motion. I am sad and depressed but ultimately happy that I have done this. I have a little power back here and feel one day he will regret this. He will now end up with nothing except a fat legged, spikey haired grandmother. So I feel good tonight. Hope all those who read my posts are doing good too. Dx Link to post Share on other sites
enh1979 Posted February 7, 2011 Share Posted February 7, 2011 My husband and I was seprated for about three months and he was seeing another women. We are now back togather because after all the hurt, anger, and pain. I found myself asking why? why? why? He meet me for lunch one afternoon and I final got my answer. She understood him better than I. Then I stumbled on a very helpful resource and I won him back. Here is what I found http://emanuel.eproduct-review.com/ Link to post Share on other sites
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