Cuchara2 Posted February 6, 2011 Share Posted February 6, 2011 Gator, you really know what you're saying and I think everyone can benefit from what you're saying I personally think that broken relationships can fix, depending on how both people approach them. If you approach this new relationship like a continuation of your previous one, it really won't work as the same old problems will arise and you'll be arguing in a month or less. If you approach it as a new relationship, take things slowly and see where you end up, you might have a chance at getting something nice and long. Then we have to look at the aspect of change. Usually after a breakup, people will change some of their characteristics because they've wanted to but didn't want to change whilst they were going out with their ex, or because they want to please their ex. These changes may be bad or good. Initially they will be good as they add a factor of excitement and freshness to the relationship, but can cause problems later on as one partner may not like these new changes. Final point is that if you were dumped, you need to make sure you really believe your ex. If they make a half arsed attempt at getting you back, make sure you say no. If they're prepared to do something crazy or very bold for you, then you might want to give them the opportunity to talk to you and possibly sort something out. Just my two cents. Link to post Share on other sites
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