lovelost Posted December 7, 1998 Share Posted December 7, 1998 I have been married to my husband for 3 yrs. now. I have an 8 yr. old daughter(from previous marriage)My husband is a sexual abuse survivor and has been undergoing therapy for such. I have been his support from the beginning. He has attempted suicide twice and has kicked my daughter and I out on the street after an argument twice. I have tons of anger sitting inside me for this man and I am not sure if I love him. He does not always respect me and speaks to me with disrespect quite frequently. I do not have a wish to make love to him and find myself fantasizing about other guys frequently. I recently met a guy online who lost his wife to cancer last year. We have connected fabulously and we have lots in common. I look forward to speaking with him every night and he feels the same. I really long for him and don't know how to proceed. I am very confused and just want a normal guy, someone with a job, someone who appreciates and respects me. Please help LOVELOST Link to post Share on other sites
Cookie Posted December 11, 1998 Share Posted December 11, 1998 Apparently your now husband is quite abusive. I would recommend that you leave him and seek another apportunity. I think that you can meet other very decent men not only the person on the net, but through regular meetings as well. Please do respect yourself more... I have been married to my husband for 3 yrs. now. I have an 8 yr. old daughter(from previous marriage)My husband is a sexual abuse survivor and has been undergoing therapy for such. I have been his support from the beginning. He has attempted suicide twice and has kicked my daughter and I out on the street after an argument twice. I have tons of anger sitting inside me for this man and I am not sure if I love him. He does not always respect me and speaks to me with disrespect quite frequently. I do not have a wish to make love to him and find myself fantasizing about other guys frequently. I recently met a guy online who lost his wife to cancer last year. We have connected fabulously and we have lots in common. I look forward to speaking with him every night and he feels the same. I really long for him and don't know how to proceed. I am very confused and just want a normal guy, someone with a job, someone who appreciates and respects me. Please help LOVELOST Link to post Share on other sites
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