Yasuandio Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I wish I had a thead, but WGW's Jungle is my little home on LS. This story of mine either has to go on some wicked comidy site, or a mental health site. More later. I want to express how impressed I am by the men on LS that actually remember and cogitate on the significance of the wedding anaversary. I think this site is perhaps a unique group of men. I never in my life have heard of men known for remembering this date (much less it's meaning). On the contrary, I'd wadger perhaps as close to 75% or more men forget this date, or have to be reminded with an elbow to the gut. Here, here, to LS Men, like WGW! Now you have to break your wonderful thoughtfulness! Dude man, she doesn't know what she's losing. Welcome to status quo (save it for someone deseving). Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 26, 2011 Author Share Posted July 26, 2011 thanks, Yas. Yeah, the wedding anniversary is sacred. that said, she gets zilch from me today in any way, shape, or form. Hung out with our mutual best friends - she sent them a photo (on her phone) of the kids on vacation. Me - I got nothin'. F*ck her. Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 thanks, Yas. Yeah, the wedding anniversary is sacred. that said, she gets zilch from me today in any way, shape, or form. Hung out with our mutual best friends - she sent them a photo (on her phone) of the kids on vacation. Me - I got nothin'. F*ck her. thats dirty. Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 26, 2011 Author Share Posted July 26, 2011 thats dirty. It sure is. Especially since I watched the pets and cleaned the comforter that one of the cats shat on. Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 It sure is. Especially since I watched the pets and cleaned the comforter that one of the cats shat on. sending the pics to your mutual friends was clearly designed as a big **** YOU to their father. chicks can be so ****ing evil.. Link to post Share on other sites
starting2wakeup Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 that said, she gets zilch from me today in any way, shape, or form. Hung out with our mutual best friends - she sent them a photo (on her phone) of the kids on vacation. Me - I got nothin'. F*ck her. Unless she knew you were with this friend the moment she sent the picture, I would not get to upset about this. I'm not saying it doesn't or shouldn't sting, but she is doing what you should be doing when you are one on one with your kids, which is making memories. The time you spend alone with your kids are memories that she does not get to share and vise versa. Having said that, if she did know you were with said friend and sent the photo knowing you would be present and see it, then yeah, f*ck her. And next time - honestly there shouldn't be a next time but if there is - just leave a note on the fridge about the cat crap. "FYI the cat sh*t all over the comforter" and hope that she sees it before she lays down.... or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 26, 2011 Author Share Posted July 26, 2011 Yeah, she didn't know that I would find out about the photo. It wasn't 'timed' or anything. But it IS thoughtless, as usual. Heh, I did send her one email though telling her that I'm worth at least ONE photo if I feed the pets & clean up cat poop. That's my wedding anniversary gift to her. (insert expletive here) Link to post Share on other sites
Tech_E Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 Don't reach out to her. It's not worth it. Women, I swear they have the capacity to be PURE evil when they want to be. Link to post Share on other sites
updown Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 seriously! no more interacting with her. WHY? why play her GAME? and what she is playing is a GAME! she's is doing it on purpose! NEVER EVER pet sit at her place again, EVER! don't be that person. you're better than that. if you can get used to her time with the kids being HER time with the kids, do it. don't send her pics of YOUR time with them and don't expect her to send pictures to you. you are separated. she doesn't want to share a life with you. she isn't going to even think to share a picture with you. down the road some she might, but not now. honestly, she doesn't sound like a very nice person........ Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 26, 2011 Author Share Posted July 26, 2011 Tech_E & updown: you're both right. I haven't been sending pics to her; stopped doing that. Whew, this is a tough f*ckin' day... (anniversary) Link to post Share on other sites
Surfer203 Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 wgw: You will get through it though. You have had many tougher days, this should be a cake walk. Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 26, 2011 Author Share Posted July 26, 2011 wgw: You will get through it though. You have had many tougher days, this should be a cake walk. You are right, sir. Absolutely. At random, I can mentally grab a handful of days that have been worse than this. Very true. Link to post Share on other sites
Surfer203 Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 For sure, just another day that HAD meaning to it at one point. It does not anymore. If you are still feeling bummed later maybe do something fun or good for yourself. Whatever makes you happy. Link to post Share on other sites
Tech_E Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 I know it sounds trite, but things will get better. As time passes days like this will become just another day on the calendar. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 Yeah, she didn't know that I would find out about the photo. It wasn't 'timed' or anything. But it IS thoughtless, as usual. Heh, I did send her one email though telling her that I'm worth at least ONE photo if I feed the pets & clean up cat poop. That's my wedding anniversary gift to her. (insert expletive here) Don't send these whinny emails. NEVER do any shyt cleaning ever again. Dude, please. This was really gaggy. Remember, you got it go'in on man. Guys that got it go'in on don't do this kind of BS. Link to post Share on other sites
marqueemoon4 Posted July 26, 2011 Share Posted July 26, 2011 Don't send these whinny emails. NEVER do any shyt cleaning ever again. Dude, please. This was really gaggy. Remember, you got it go'in on man. Guys that got it go'in on don't do this kind of BS. yea, i read that and though c'mon man you're better than that. she probably was like UGH. Link to post Share on other sites
change Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Don't send these whinny emails. NEVER do any shyt cleaning ever again. Dude, please. This was really gaggy. Remember, you got it go'in on man. Guys that got it go'in on don't do this kind of BS. Yas is a straight shooter and always gives some of the best advice. I've been following your thread for quite some time WGW, and you ARE better than this. And, as I've started to learn, no matter how bleak it looks sometimes, you will make it through and come out better than ever on the other side. Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 This has been a hard, hard week... Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Guys that got it go'in on can handle tough weeks. I can tell about a physically and mentally tramatic week THAT makes yours sound like a sissy boy story. Wanna hear the highlights? Sometimes context is helpful. Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 Well, truthfully, I'd rather you not use my thread to make me look like a sh*t head by comparison to your tougher life. If that's OK. Link to post Share on other sites
Tech_E Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Yas, I can see the intent, but the execution is a little off the mark. WGW, given your anniversary etc I am sure this week has been very hard. However, try and see some positive at least. You didn't crack and you didn't give in, you made it through it. Each day, each week (heck sometimes even each hour) that you trudge your way through is a day/week/hour closer to putting this agony behind you right? A random thought, why not find a good book and get lost in it? How about a jigsaw puzzle (not for everyone), something, anything to get your mind off this? Painting class? Hang in there my friend. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) Dude, my intentions were in good faith. Sometimes it can make you feel better to get your paradigm shifted. I learned (to little to late, it seems) that my mom has breast cancer and my drucken brother (whom she enables) will not allow her to get proper medical treatment. If only you knew the other highlights (which are really bad, too), I think I could have improved your mood dramatically. But, you had to step on your own dick. The repressed anger is good enough for me though. I used to be so nice and friendly. But now, I am a mean, SOB, which could be due to 27 years of repressed anger, too. That's where my "fresh" mouth comes from, which, I apologize for, WGW. You said "your thead is my thread." I can't stop my smart ass mouth, it's like Torrett's Syndrome. Therefore, I promise to stay away. Yas PS. Jigsaw puzzle, painting class, I say go for it man. Tech E also gives me well-deserved correction, which is certainly due and appreciated. Edited July 28, 2011 by Yasuandio Link to post Share on other sites
Author worldgonewrong Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Don't pay me any mind, Yas. I'm in a messed-up state of mind this week. I apologize for being dismissive and over-sensitive. Lord knows you got a helluvalot on your plate and don't deserve it. The news of your mother is tragic and I will pray for her. Love to you, my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Get ready to go thru the meanest spell of your gd life Dylan. I think it may be repressed anger in my case, Dr. Heckle vs Mr. Hyde. I'm telling you - my personality is unrecognizable. I think my value system has changed as well. Perhaps it is the medications, the disorder, or it is just me responding to 27 years of history that I have swollowed like a total idiot. I mean, like, even 20 years, sort of maxes out your entire "adult" life. Thank God I don't look like shyt. You seem so very nice WGW. You remind me of my old self. Where even total himilation wouldn't budge me from my "goodness" and "kindness," - despite how bloody smart and well educated I am. That is what makes it so stinking pathetic. Yes, I'm trying to rouse the spark of anger in you. We SHOULD be angry about our protracted captivity and ultimate rejection by our spouses. It's gamey and it is cruel. Talk about limb pulled off.... The trap is still hang'in on the live meat. Like Michial Jackson said, I'm bad. Dude man i'm gonna stay away from LS the best I can. Being a somewhat successfully published, but colorful and contraversial writer (that can't spell for shyt), I have the ability to combine words that upset many normal, regular people. And obviosly, I need to check it. So, I'm gonna try my best to shut up. It is really hard for me not to particiapate on LS, I so love it. But....she who cannot control herself... Love ya dude, pray'in 4 ya, YAS Link to post Share on other sites
debtman Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Yas, hope you stick around...your advice (and attitude) is always much appreciated...and we don't mind the spelling. wgw, sorry it's been a tough week. They will happen. Stick to your guns, keep doing what you know is right for YOU. Good luck and keep posting... Link to post Share on other sites
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