goddessrivka Posted March 24, 2004 Share Posted March 24, 2004 My ex broke up with me less then 2 weeks ago. For no reason except a bad feeling. I was hurt then, but 100times more hurt now. Please read and give me some advice I jsut found out that he moved on after only 3 days. That he couldnt trust me because of a kiss over a year ago and what other people told him. That he had moved on before he got back together with me. And I'm hurting so bad I just want to die inside... I would never kill myself but, i feel so awful. I cant function or do anything. I need help... Someone please tell me what to do when i feel like this. I feel so lost, betrayed, and heart broken. Its the worst ive ever felt in my life! I hate to be dramatic but its true andI dont know how to move on. i dont know how to cope with the feelings I have. I cant do my schoolwork, I cant foucus on anything but him and how much I am hurting. I love him more then life and despite what he did if it was possible id take him back in an instant. Unfortunately I dont go after taken guys... What can I do, I've been hurt times before, but its never been this bad... Please help me... Link to post Share on other sites
kgal Posted March 24, 2004 Share Posted March 24, 2004 Hmm. I understand the feeling of being in love and the hurt you feel when that person doesn't want to be with you. It really sucks.. and I really feel for you. It's been 2 months for me.. and there is hope. It does get better and that feeling does go away in time.. trust me. It's still hard for me sometimes.. but it's like a journey.. and you WILL get through it. Trust me. You may even come out liking yourself more over this sit. and realize what a jerk he is. I know you must love him.. and it's hard to hate someone you love. I'm not saying to hate him.. but you just have to understand things are this way because HE wants them that way. So.. let him have what he wants.. and walk with some pride. You're much better and one day you may just find someone a thousand times better and all the tears you've cried over him will just seem like a distant memory. Just have faith.. hang in there! Link to post Share on other sites
Author goddessrivka Posted March 24, 2004 Author Share Posted March 24, 2004 thankyou for being supportive, i know that things will get better eventually, but i need some way to be ok now. i have schoolwork and midterms... i cant focus on them now... that is my priority Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted March 24, 2004 Share Posted March 24, 2004 There are several posts going on just how bad a heartache can feel. A great many of us know EXACTLY what you are going thru. There is no remedy. You just have to forge thru it until you can breath again. The first 2 weeks to 3 months are AWFUL! I lucked up and had a really physical job. I worked until I was exhausted and could actually sleep at night. If I would've had to concentrate....I have no idea what I would've done. I'm really sorry............but break ups SUCK big time!!!!! You do get thru it though. Link to post Share on other sites
kgal Posted March 24, 2004 Share Posted March 24, 2004 Originally posted by Arabess There are several posts going on just how bad a heartache can feel. A great many of us know EXACTLY what you are going thru. There is no remedy. You just have to forge thru it until you can breath again. The first 2 weeks to 3 months are AWFUL! I lucked up and had a really physical job. I worked until I was exhausted and could actually sleep at night. If I would've had to concentrate....I have no idea what I would've done. I'm really sorry............but break ups SUCK big time!!!!! You do get thru it though. Man.. I hope I'm over my heartache completely by next month.. haha. That would make it mo. number three! Link to post Share on other sites
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