She now says she loves me only as a friend, whats this all about?

[Timneedshelp]

Ok here goes, she is 42 I am 44 both divorced me 2 years and her 10 months.

We started dating 10 months ago right after her divorce, I had nothing to do with it.

We hit it off great we did everything together. Then after about 6 months I told her I was in love with her, she was skeptical however a couple of months later she said she loved me too. This was all fine and everything through the holidays and valentines day. Then she started to tell me she needed to spend more time at home with her 2 teenage daughters and subsequently this meant less time for me. This was going ok for a month or so then she was spending less and less time with me.

During this time she kept insisting she still wanted us to date and and that nothing had really changed between us except that she needed to spend more time at home. Well as you can see it just kept getting worse.

And then she finally told me that she realized she really was not in love with me. But that she loved me as a friend.

She kept coming over and we would see eachother about once a week or so then she came over on saturday and talked with me and snuggled with me she even did my dishes and folded some clothes. She then said she had to go home to her 2 daughters. So I walked her to the door and she gave me a look like she had not done in a long time, she kissed me like she had not done in a long time, she told me she would call me, well she didn't call she did not talk to me for 2 days. then I went to her house and we chated a bit and i ASKED HER WHY SHE HAD NOT CALLED, she then told me that I misunderstood her intentions on our previous get together.

She says that she is very attracted to me, and that I would be a wonderful catch for anybody. But that she is not in love with me, yet she calld again and asked if we were still going on out=r camping trip next month

 

HELP ME ! whats going on here.

[overseas2004]

She is telling you what is happening. She is not in love with you and not attracted to you. She still feels comfortable and able to spend time with you and even kiss you b/c she has been doing that for the past 6 months. And that is about it.

 

What is not clear here?