Darkangelism Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Im frustrated, the girl that i last dated randomly brought me a postcard and candy from her spring break trip, its like what the? i dont want her in my life at all, but i dont know how to say get lost. I tried blocking her AIM, so instead she just shows up at my door. I dont get how she could think i would want to be friends with her, she insulted me real bad, "why would you ever think I would ever want to be your gf" Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Live and let live. Forgive her of her grievances, decline/return her gifts, request the absence of her presence. Link to post Share on other sites
dolphinsunshyn Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Just ignoring her and the situation is not going to fix it. You have to let her know in a firm but diplomatic way that you no longer desire her company. Be honest and give her a reason why you feel that way. If you have to, send her a letter by certified mail. That way she has to sign for it and she can't use the excuse that she "just didn't get it". Link to post Share on other sites
Author Darkangelism Posted March 25, 2004 Author Share Posted March 25, 2004 no need to bother with mail she lives down the hall. Link to post Share on other sites
Rockstar Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Darkangelism - Are you a man or a woman? Your pic looks like a guy but your statement asks "why would you ever think I would ever want to be your gf". Link to post Share on other sites
Sundaymorning Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 You gotta be straight up dude. But I am sure you have a hole in your door where you can see who is there.....do not answer when it is her! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Darkangelism Posted March 25, 2004 Author Share Posted March 25, 2004 Originally posted by Rockstar Darkangelism - Are you a man or a woman? Your pic looks like a guy but your statement asks "why would you ever think I would ever want to be your gf". I am a guy, the quote is what she told me. Originally posted by Sundaymorning You gotta be straight up dude. But I am sure you have a hole in your door where you can see who is there.....do not answer when it is her! Thats a good idea, im usually just too lazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Tell her since you are not worthy of being her boyfriend, then you are not worthy of her gifts. It's all or nothing, and she made it clear. That should send the message loud and clear. Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 I think it would be wise to tell this girl how you feel, and how you are not interested, and why. I would recommend trying to be polite, as you can still get your point across without lowering her opinion of you. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Maybe you could tell her you think she is a very nice girl, but you are making plans to spend the summer in another country (Canada counts....lol!) and don't want to start up a relationship with someone. That way, you have a reason for not dating her....but don't have to hurt her feelings face to face. Link to post Share on other sites
Cpunch75 Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 wait til he comes back from all that beaver lovin..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Darkangelism Posted March 25, 2004 Author Share Posted March 25, 2004 Originally posted by Arabess Maybe you could tell her you think she is a very nice girl, but you are making plans to spend the summer in another country (Canada counts....lol!) and don't want to start up a relationship with someone. That way, you have a reason for not dating her....but don't have to hurt her feelings face to face. She doesnt want a relationship with me, we tried that then she randomly decided that i am not good enough for her, but still wanted to be friends with me, doent understand that she was mean to me and they i dont want her around. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 If she dumped you FIRST....then why the hell are you worried about her feelings????? LOL! GO tape the postcard and candy she gave you to her door. Take a piece of chalk and write REFUSED across the top. She'll get the hint. Link to post Share on other sites
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