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I have been reading all the no contact posts in the forums and everyone seems to think that there is never a chance of rekindling a relationship. My ex and I have been apart for about 6 weeks now and I have gotten so many mixed signals that I was getting very confused.

 

I started the no contact rule about 10 days ago and it does work. I didn't email my ex for a week or call and he finally did. He called again and told called my mom by name and asked for me,but I wasn't home.The next day I left for vacation for a few days and went to see my dad and say bye at work.My ex works there and he just stared and than waved later. Later that day he asked my dad where I was going and talked for awhile.

 

I don't know how far I should go,or if I should call back.I'm kinda scared I'll push to far.I'm a scorpio and we have a tendency to go overboard with things.Any comments would be greatly appreciated.

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What was the reason for the break-up?

 

Not ALL relationships are doomed just because someone wants to take a break from them. It seems he is still very much interested in you. You are right....this is when No Contact works. He's probably realized how much he misses you since you aren't talking to him.

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Arabess, the main reason was because his mom didn't want him to turn out like everyone else in his family. He comes from a VERY disfunctional family and I think also he got scared that he would accidently slip with me.

Thank you for the advice! :)

~*Lyssa*~

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