Go ahead or cool down?

[orlasc]

Ok so here is a story that I hope won't bore you.

Im unsure about if this girl likes me or if I stand a chance at all, or if I should just cool down and back up. Also there's a problem, she seems to be engaged.

Anyway the short story of our interaction follows below:

I'm studying a Master's Degree in Europe, I'm from overseas and so is the girl I speak of, who is also my classmate. For the first months of the studies we never chatted, she wouldnt come to the meetings or parties that we all went to and we were not even friends on FB as the rest of the class was. She, said those who had spoke to her, was engaged, she wore the ring, and her boyfriend trveled 8000 kms to see her before winter.

Then everything apparently went almost to hell. They kind of broke up at first and cancelled the engagement, and that was like 6 weeks ago, now they are kind of trying again but she no longer has the ring. Since then she has been going out a lot more with the rest of us and has turned out to be a pretty easy going and fun girl.

Like 3 weeks ago we started somehow chatting and so and one weekend we danced for a little bit, and then she called me 'the dancer' with one of her friends who told me this in front of her. Then she out of nowhere posted something in my FB Wall about a concert that she is going to go with her boyfriend, and we had some small talk there, its strange because she doesnt seem to hang out in FB a lot. Then we went out one night with some common friends and drank our asses of, I walked her home because everyone else left early, we walked holding hands pretty much all the way (like half an hour) and stopped a couple times to hug each other, nothing else happened. We were absolutely hammered, I barely remember, and she say she doesn't at all. Next day I left her an email to make sure she was alright, she answered a little later saying that she was alright and apologizing for anything 'embarassing' she might have done/said and some more small talk.

I didn't know what to answer so I left it alone and at 11 p.m. she sent me a second email saying literally (well translated) "I almost forgot: thank you for taking care of me last night".

I then answered that I was going to watch a movie the next day and invited her to come along, she said that she had the same plan with a girlfriend of her that I also knew, so we all went, and nothing happened and we mentioned nothing. Later that night we exchanged a couple of Twitter updates. That was last weekend and then in class everything is being very distant, we barely talk to each other and so, but all that has happened during the previous two weeks surely has me spinning around the whole thing.

Adding up, she does things with me that doesnt seem to do with other people, and she seem to think of me from time to time when she send those emails or post that in my FB, but in the daily routine she's pretty distant and I wouldnt suspect anything if it was just up to that.

 

So, do you people think I should make her clear that I like her, or that I should wait for some more signs from her part or definetly abandon the whole quest hehe. It's a big deal for me because is the first time in my 25 years that I would do that, my 2 past GF's and the other things I had were all people who knew me and liked me and told me so it was very easy, but this is frightening.

So thank you all for reading all this and even more if you are able to give some advice, I'll be happy to read your thought and to answer any counter-questions.

Cheers,

Juan

[PegNosePete]

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