Ginger Beer Posted April 1, 2011 Share Posted April 1, 2011 Gator, When you talk about breadcrumbs etc how do you know what they are? my ex is really messing with my head and its only been 3 weeks. I'm doing the LC thing as i need my stuff back. Can you read my post and advise me on what to do and what you think is going on in his head? I am so confused!!!! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t270805/ Thanks I'm confused with this too, I understand things like ''hi'' etc are breadcrumbs but she's been texting me non-stop for nearly a month now, saying she misses me, reminisced about me to mutual friends, asked mutual friends if they've spoke to me, text me when she's watching TV we both like to tell me she's thinking of me etc, she's even called me ''gorgeous'' which she didn't do when we were friends after she ended it. I dunno if she's giving breadcrumbs or if there's something more. Link to post Share on other sites
Fufu Posted April 1, 2011 Share Posted April 1, 2011 these are all breadcrumbs.. unless they are saying things and doing sincere actions that show they want to: work things out with you, especially what triggered the relationship to end and want to be with you again Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted April 3, 2011 Share Posted April 3, 2011 Last night I ended up telling a friend (who is a mutual friend of my ex) the reason why I've not been in contact with anyone for four months (because I'm in NC with her and everyone we mutually know), I don't think he will say anything but was this a bad idea? He's a good friend, I just feel like maybe I shouldn't have said anything? I didn't break NC with her though, still going strong on that one. Link to post Share on other sites
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