Author lenny Posted February 17, 2011 Author Share Posted February 17, 2011 I didn't get further than I was hit on. The idea that it was someone he knew really bothered him - not that it was a friend of his or anything. Didn't get any further than that because he didn't want to talk about anything right now. I was in bed kind of half asleep when he left. When I heard him leave I was upset so texted him that I was sad that he left without tucking me in. No response. A while back we had a disagreement where he wasn't pleased with me and he did this withdrawal thing then too. Totally ignored me for like a day and then we talked about it thoroughly and calmly. I'm kind of glad we did because now I know this is the way he processes things. It bothers me because it's not the way I process things but I can accept he does things differently. And he never ultimately avoided the issue as it was talked about which is a big plus. I am assuming a similar result will happen here. I don't know if I will tell him my thought process around it when we do talk about it because I think it was more like you described it PegNosePete where I never for an instant believed I'd go through with it but that didn't stop my mind from going weird places. There was no intent behind these thoughts. It was an immediate no but then the reflection happened and it became a no even though it would be fun and no one would know because it's wrong and I love my man. Link to post Share on other sites
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