folieadeux Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 Orion, I'm gonna be harsh because well I think it's the truth on this one. One you guys were LDR, and only met a few times. You guys didn't have a normal relationship per se, it's different if you start in a relationship and then go LDR, but an entire relationship in LDR is hardly a relationship. It is not enough for most people, and she jumped out of it. She jumped out of it with a guy there waiting for her, a guy she can see every day. I'm sorry but she didn't want to stay in the relationship. This guy is most likely not a rebound and needs to be treated as such. I'd advise going into strict NC for the purpose of healing, if she comes back sure but I wouldn't count on it. -Gator I'd have to politely disagree with your opinion on what constitutes a real relationship in regards to LDRs. My entire relationship has been LD with me and my boyfriend residing in different locations from day one. We are very much in love and in this for the long haul, so this type of relationship can definitely work for sure if both people want it bad enough. To the OP, I'd say go NC. LDRs aren't for everyone and she's living proof of that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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