yuckify Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 There is this girl in one of my classes. As of today I noticed that she likes me. She was flirting with me and I uh didn't really know what to do all I did was continue the conversation. I like her too. Should I get to know her a little better before asking her out? Should I ask her out? If I do ask her out how do I ask her to be my girlfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Get to know her better...walk with her to classes...and then ask her out. It's pretty simple. It happens naturally. You don't ask her to be your girlfriend until you've been seeing her on a dating basis for a while and you get the feeling that she really likes you enough to do that. Link to post Share on other sites
Renny_H Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Chase her up. I think it's your turn to make the next move, make her feel her flirting has worked, else she might quit altogether. I messed up by waiting for this girl I liked to continue flirting with me for a number of days. She eventually retreated cos I was too busy thinking if I should chase her or not, wondering if she was interested. I've learnt to never hestitate, even if you fear you reading a girl wrong. It's called learning, getting experience. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 are you 100% sure she likes you? or are you just assuming she likes you just cause she flirts w/you. there are girls/guys that flirt for fun while having no interest in the other person, and there are others who flirt cause they do have interest in them. WHoa their buddy, trying to rush things i c, asking her to be gf already?? gf/bf status takes time to build. now whenever the time is right, i suggest asking her out. and continue the process. even if she does agree to go on a date, it doesnt mean she's your gf. when gf/bf status between 2 ppl exist, YOU will know it, you dont have to ask it. Link to post Share on other sites
Nim Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 Yuck, quick tip, I'd get to know her first. Girls at your age often don't know what they want, and sometimes will try out their flirting techniques on anyone. Get to know her, and if it's genuine, go for it. But monkey's right, girlfriend/boyfriend status takes time to build up to. Might not seem like it now, but trust us. When the time comes and you feel connected enough, you'll just go for it without really thinking. Link to post Share on other sites
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