nicolas465 Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Hey guys, Ok i don't really know what to say about this. Just keep in mind that there are over 20 000 ppl attending my school. 1st semester theres this girl that at one look am immediately head over heals for , she looked shy to me, she always sat alone, she hardly ever said anything if someone sat beside her.. but if they talked to her she always had a nice smile when replying... i never made a move because the semesters gonna be over in a month and i figured that i'd never see her again anyways so what's the point a month later i was taking a special test for school, and she's taking the same test... only 50 out of 10 000 and we're both there... it's now second semester and she's in another one of my classes... then iw as thinking it'd be kinda weird if she was assigned to my lab as well.. and low and behold she is, she sits right in front of me... i haven't gotten the guts to talk to her... so just carry on doing my own thing... still being a chicken and not being able to even say hi.. yesterday a girl and i got seated next to each other and we got along right away and we were just talking about watever life in general. and then we got talking about the type of ppl that we like... and i describe the girl that sits in front of me and the girl goes.. "oh are you talking about julia? ya, it must be julia , we've been friends since grade 2... " juding from hwo shy julia is i dont'think she would ever set up all this... but i dont' know.. what do you guys think is going on.. fate? think i should go say hi sometime? marc Link to post Share on other sites
Renny_H Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Always say 'hi' to girls first. They're probably more afraid to say it than you are. It makes you friendly in their eyes. Approachable. As for the fate aspect, that's real dangerous thinking that. It's screwed up a lot of my encounters with girls cos I think they're 'the one' cos we kept running into each other, and I thought then I had total control of the relationship. What's happening with you: It's definitely coincidence, but it's also an opportunity, so take it. Don't rely on fate to guide a relationship forming. Link to post Share on other sites
RedneckRomeo Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 You should prob do something at least - if you're really interested in her, by all means introduce yourself and get to know her. Some things are 'fated' to happen though I dont call it fate. The thing is, we don't know what is going to happen next in life - so until you know for sure without a doubt - you should never rely on something like fate to bring you together. It may be fated to happen, but then again, some are fated not to happen. I dont consider it fate though - as it is not uncontrollable. We can change our own futures by how we act in certain situations. I believe there is a reason she ended up in those places, whether it involves you or not - so, if you want to get to know her - break the ice, and you never know where it can take you. You may be just what she needs - or she may be just what you need. Never know until you try. Link to post Share on other sites
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