Linda9999 Posted February 22, 2011 Share Posted February 22, 2011 My husband cheated for 9 months and I had no clue. Now I just found out my 17yo daughter is bulimic and has been binging and purging for the last year, and I had no clue. How can I ever trust myself again? How do I know that those around me aren't hiding things from me and lying to me? I have a 21yo son and a 19yo son also. I wonder what they could be up to that I have no clue about. Should I just decide that what I don't know can't hurt me? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 23, 2011 Share Posted February 23, 2011 Family counselling will help. Talk to your kids..Let them know that you are there for them and can always come to you for anything. Sorry to hear about your daughter..Do a google search in your City, there should be places and therapy for your daughter to get the help she needs. Stop blaming yourself Linda! I know easier said than done, but don't, it just makes you feel worse. Your 2 sons are young adults, especially the 21 year old. You did a great job raising them and your daughter too! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 Yes, make this about YOU! Even though YOU were so oblivious to your family you had no idea that your daughter was dropping weight due to bulimia and your husband has been cheating for 9 months. Women are supposed to be super sensitive to changes in their spouses behavior. Seems like you are too self-absorbed...what you don't know won't hurt you? Ugh, worst attitude I have heard in a long time. Yes, stay ignorant forever because reality is just too painful. Jesus, abit harsh don't you think? If she was standing infront of you, would you have the nerve to say this to Linda's face? Or is it because it's online, it's okay to dump on someone like you just did? Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted February 26, 2011 Share Posted February 26, 2011 Therapy and learning to love yourself. Cause if you love yourself.. you can have it all.. and not much else will matter. Best wishes. Mea:) Link to post Share on other sites
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