laRubiaBonita Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I don't even hate her or my ex anymore. The messages sound like the rantings of a mad woman. My ex is just a sad and pitiful person who ruined her life for god knows what reason. that is awesome that you have gotten this far!!!!!! and especially that you can see how mentally sick your mom is. i am very proud of you woggle! Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I'm happy, Woggle. Granted, I've only been married for 4.5 months, but I fully expect that in 2, 5, 10, 20 years my answer will be the same. It took me a long time to find my H but the wait was so worth it. Your mom sounds horrible. Link to post Share on other sites
mbm69 Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 I am not happy and I often do resent my spouse. But I don't think my unhappiness is specifically related to my relationship with him. He is not a terrible spouse... but I have made terrible life decisions that I am stuck with, and him being a part of my life makes him part of that unhappiness... does that make any sense???? Your mother sounds awful BTW Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all... maybe If you can't say anything nice you're probably Woggle's mom... YES!! Link to post Share on other sites
fooled once Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 I am not answering my mother's calls anymore but she left a message on my machine saying that my wife is not truly happy and that deep down no married woman is happy and they all envy her. I have heard other women making various comments like this. It really makes me wonder what my wife truly thinks of me. Can any married women on here say they are truly happy and would do it again if given the chance? I can say it. I would definitely do it over again. We actually renewed our wedding vows almost 3 years ago We blended families and let me tell you, that is NOT an easy thing to do - especially with a bitch of an ex wife (his) and a loser of a dick ex husband (mine). But we did it and we are much stronger today than we ever have been. I am more in love with him today than the day we married. My life would be so lonely and empty without him. He makes me happy, he makes me feel so loved and he is the best husband any girl could ask for! Link to post Share on other sites
Crazy Magnet Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Your Mom sounds like a piece of work. Sort of like my Dad. I only answer about one call a month to make sure nobody is dead and get off the phone as fast as I can. I delete all his messages and emails. Since I started that about three years ago I have felt so free from his angry pissed off ways. I'm so much happier. And for the record, I'm not married, but happily partnered up and living with my BF. I can't imagine life without him. Sure, he bugs me sometimes, but overall, he makes me a better woman and makes my life wonderful. Link to post Share on other sites
Distant78 Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 I'm happy. Due to be married this spring to the woman who I love so much. Yea and your mom is.....It's understandable why you keep in contact with her, but like the poster above, just keep in contact to make sure no one's dead and hang up real fast. Link to post Share on other sites
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