CUDDLYWONDER Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 HI ALL, i have a question about my boyfreind that nees answering or help. when we met i use to love to watch him play his air guitar, air drums, air piano, air violin and what ever air insturments were on the song that he was playing them too. i use to laugh at his dancing while doing these air instruments and jumping around to punk rock music like mick jagger does on stage. now months later he still does this and always has long before we met and so does his brother so i know he was not just performing for me i just happened to always be there when he was donig it. so now, i do not under stand at all why when he does these things i turn away from him in almost disgust. yes disgust, it is a sickening feeling to watch him do this and i just wish he would not do it anymore but i can not take the life out of him and ask him to stop doing something sosimple that he enjoys so much and has a lot of fun at. i know it is in me that it is the problem and not really what he is doing or the fact that he is doing it, just something snapped in me and now i find it so distatseful and so annoying when he does this. also when he sings in the car, and he has a great singing voice, but i just can not stand it anymore. i do not know what changed in me so drastically to now hate his little things that i use to love so. i know it is common to some extent but honestly when he does these things i literally want to slap him and tell him to quit it! this is most disheartening because i use to love to watch him so. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 And this is what 'falling out of love' is all about. Things that you first thought cute because you were swept up in the thrill of it all start to bug you. Eventually there will be enough of them that you'll break up. And maybe he'll find someone who enjoys his antics all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
CUDDLYWONDER Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 i love him very much and i don't think the honeymoon is quite over or at least i certainly hope not! i still am willing to believe it is something in me that has changed not my love for him or our feelings with each other but something deeper but can not put my finger on it you know? one of them deals. Link to post Share on other sites
CUDDLYWONDER Posted March 29, 2004 Share Posted March 29, 2004 does anyone else have advice for me please? Link to post Share on other sites
pav186 Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 Im really not sure what to say about this... if it bothers u that much and he does it so often it doesnt seem like its the right relationship for you. i mean, you cant really tell him to stop doing it since he's prob just goofin around, but u know this already. unfortunately, i dont know what anyone on this board can really offer in terms of advice. i wish you the best though... actually...perhaps next time he does it you should join in and play a diff instrument, you never know you may have fun... sorry thats all i got...haha... Link to post Share on other sites
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