just_some_guy Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Sweetie...because he is on a rebound and testing the waters....so don't be the boat. It isn't abnormal for there to be an ebb and tide either. It is rare that dating or whatever is either all-in or all-out kind of thing. That's why it is important not to rush into an intimate situation too quickly. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 I don't get men. He's texting again now, why do you guys do that? I can't go there he's on rebound but why the silence then the texts, it makes no sense to me, hate games. he resumes communication when he becomes worried he doesn't have a gal... don't be his backup plan. do not communicate. it opens the door for more pain; more of the same of what he's given in the past. Link to post Share on other sites
Author willowthewisp Posted July 10, 2011 Author Share Posted July 10, 2011 Thanks for the replies. It's not really like that, we aren't dating, long story. He is on rebound though and I will not go there. If he wants something down the road when he has moved on from his ex, then maybe, but not now, for now I'm just happy to get to know him as a friend and that is all. Link to post Share on other sites
worlybear Posted July 11, 2011 Share Posted July 11, 2011 Being friends is good!:):) Link to post Share on other sites
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