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originalsphinx

Hey guys, I know I haven't been on for a while, but my computer is getting tempermental on me.

anyway, i have a sort of dilemma and I am seeking the wise-dom of the LS members...

when my ex and I were 2gether i became friendly with a number of his friends and i still am. There is this one in particular, a guy, who is practically my ex's best friend, who i get along very well with. Anyway, I recently found out that he has had a crush on me for as long as I have known him and yesterday he asked me out. I am not sure if he is asking me out because my ex is now out of the picture, but I really value him as a friend and would like us to stay that way. So do I say no or do I go out with him as just friends?

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if you're not interested in dating him, make it clear that you can only be friends. getting together alone is not a good idea, in that case, why give him hope?...

 

-yes

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well you pretty much just answered your own question, from what you have said it seems that you would like to keep him as a good friend, situations like these are hard, because it can ruin such a beautiful friendship sometimes

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