mr.goodguy Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Hi everyone, first time poster. Just wondering if I have a shot. So I met this woman online and we went out a handful of dates. Everything started off really well but lost steam a few weeks ago. I miss her and it was my fault that I took things too quickly (yes, live and learn from your mistakes). I'm currently investing a lot into myself right now to be a stronger person and to understand how and why relationships work so I can avoid having a woman that I like get away. Anyways, my question is, if after 5 or 6 months of NC...if I were to contact her and meet up and show her I've matured and changed for the better, do you think she'd find a rekindle of interest or have I already burn this bridge? Thanks for reading. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 This is just my opinion but if you have only gone on a handful of dates and she has issues with your maturity and you did something to provoke her to call it quits then no you haven't a chance in rekindling anything.. Why would you ? You weren't a match.. so you both just move on.. Learn from it.. that is what dating is all about.. learning what you want and don't want in a relationship and making mistakes along the way.. fixing those that we can and improving ourselves for the next person in our lives. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.goodguy Posted February 25, 2011 Author Share Posted February 25, 2011 Thanks for your comments Art Critic. I felt we were good together, it wasnt that I was immature, but I moved too quickly too soon. A big no-no. I agree with you to let it go (its still fresh and going to take time), learn from my mistakes, improve myself, and date a lot of people until the right person comes along. Just wondering if others concur with Art Critic or had a similar experience in the past. Link to post Share on other sites
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