mandar Posted March 2, 2011 Share Posted March 2, 2011 I found out that my fiancée cheated on me a little over a year ago while drunk (no sex,jujst fondling and kissing)...while I was pregnant, and oh yeah, with his brothers girlfriend. Yeah, I know....but he's very sorry and I whole heartedly believe him. This post is about my reaction...which I found strange. Of course I was mad, but mostly hurt...but instead of flying off the handle, I just wanted him to hold me. Now, I always thought I would like scream and yell and break his stuff....and never want him to touch me ever again....but that's ALL I wanted. To be close to him. The thought to leave him never crossed my mind. He is an excellent father, and other than this one thing, treats me extremely well.. Has anyone ever had a similar reaction? Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
neveragain1 Posted March 2, 2011 Share Posted March 2, 2011 not only did he cheat on you before you even had a chance for the relationship to get old, he screwed his own brother's girlfriend. this is a man that not even his own brother can trust. if you don't break off the engagement, and take him to court for child support, then expect this to happen to you again when married. Link to post Share on other sites
Woman In Blue Posted March 2, 2011 Share Posted March 2, 2011 LOL...he's very sorry, alright - that he got caught. This guy has serious boundary issues. Is his brother still talking to him? What you experienced is called "hysterical bonding." Sooner or later that eventually wears off - and then you'll break his stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
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