Jewel Posted December 8, 1998 Share Posted December 8, 1998 I've been with my boyfriend for 5months. He wants and loves to go to strip bars. He said it makes him happy and arouses him so he likes it. He said I have nothing to worry about because he loves me. He also likes to talk about all the cute girls on t.v. I told him it hurts me to hear how all these girls he likes to see at the bars and on t.v.realy make him happy. I don't have to worry because he said he looks at them and makes love to me. please help me this hurts. Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted December 9, 1998 Share Posted December 9, 1998 I don't think he fully understands how this makes you feel, and you need to make that very clear to him. If he can't compromise and at LEAST keep his mouth shut about other women, then maybe this guy isn't quite right for you. Definitely sit him down and explain things on very simple and direct terms. If he is truly caring and concerned with your well-being, he won't simply gloss it over with a "don't worry" instead of trying to offer some give instead of take to your relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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