manolo Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 OK, Here is the thing. Me and my girlfriend broke up two months ago. Last weekend was the first time that we hung out since the break up. I called her up earlier in the week to set up a date to go out to dinner and talk. Well anyway, she calls and tells me that her family showed up with a couple of bags of crawfish and she wouldn't be able to have dinner with me but, I can come over if I would like. So I went. It was a nice party, had a very good time hanging out with everybody and I know that she had a good time also. The thing is that everytime my phone rings or I would get a text, she would look over to see who is calling. She even asks me if I am dating anybody. She gets jeoulous very easily. Then I ask her if she is dating anybody and she tells me no but, that she is hanging out with someone. She told me that she has a slite interest in him but he is not for her. I don't understand why she was giving me mixed signals thru out the whole party. We talked, laughed, joked around just like old times. At the end of the night we talk alone and she still believes that we need time apart. I don't know if its because of that guy she is hanging out with or its because she just wants to be alone for a while. Oh yeah, her and that guy made out and that really bothers me because she is still the last person I've kissed. I really love this girl alot and I don't wanna lose her to some other guy. Today has been a week since the party and we haven't spoken since that day. I wonder if she is even thinking about me or even plans in getting back together with me. Or maybe she just wants to try out different guys just to see if I'm really the one for her because she is still really young(22 years old). I remember when I was 22 years old in college and bartending. It's a totally different scene. I guess she is meeting alot of different people. Only time will tell. I just wanted to share this with yall and give me some feedback on what yall think and what I should do. Oh yeah, I called today and left a message on her phone to give me a call. I hope she calls. I want her to call me so bad. Maybe I'm just not strong enough. Do yall think I did the right thing. Am I feeding her ego. This no contact rule sucks. I am a grown man. I am not in high school anymore. Only time will tell if she is the one for me. If she comes back to me then its meant to be. If she doesn't then God has someone else in store for me. I am so confused. I wonder if she is going thru the same thing as me. All I got to say is that I am having a hard time getting over this girl and I need some advise on what I should do. Should I forget about her and move on or should I pursue my first love. Is it possible to love again because I have never been in love with a girl like this before. Please post and let me know. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 This no contact rule sucks. I am a grown man. I am not in high school anymore. So are you going to contact her every day/week/month? She broke up with you if she has not contacted you then you must go along with the "game." You made your move, let her do hers. And you said it best if she was not meant to be, that is because God has someone else stored for you. she still believes that we need time apart She gave you a hint already. I would not call her for a while. You guys hung out and had a good time. You should have left it as that. And do not wait for her call, and of course do not call her back. Link to post Share on other sites
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