Renny_H Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 Okay, I told this girl in my class I have a crush on her. It was an act of desperation to get her to forever notice me in class, even if she didn’t like me the same way. I just couldn’t stand keeping my feelings inside any longer, but she was okay with it, she’s not uncomfortable. She told me she’s already seeing someone, but here’s my motto: If it was easy to get a girl, what’s the point? Where’s the adventure, the struggle, the trials, the experience and the possible triumph? You could say I’m tongue-in-cheek about the whole matter, but I really want to win her. But I now know talking to her will be awkward, so how to I break the ice again? Should I laugh with her about me admitting I have a crush on her? Can we still be friends? Link to post Share on other sites
Fofinha Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 Of course you can still be friends! You are one brave guy for having admitted to her that you have a crush on her. I admire you. Congrats! Trust me, if you remain a gentleman and not bring this up every week, I am sure this girl is flattered that you had the balls to admit to her you like her. I am sure she took it as a compliment and you guys can certainly be close friends because of it. Make sure you don't get hurt though by expecting too much from her (she did warn you she was involved!). Be cool, be subtle and be there for her. As a woman, I know I love having friends like those. Good luck. I wish you all the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Renny_H Posted March 30, 2004 Author Share Posted March 30, 2004 Originally posted by Fofinha Of course you can still be friends! You are one brave guy for having admitted to her that you have a crush on her. I admire you. Congrats! Trust me, if you remain a gentleman and not bring this up every week, I am sure this girl is flattered that you had the balls to admit to her you like her. I am sure she took it as a compliment and you guys can certainly be close friends because of it. Make sure you don't get hurt though by expecting too much from her (she did warn you she was involved!). Be cool, be subtle and be there for her. As a woman, I know I love having friends like those. Good luck. I wish you all the best. Wow, thanks. Usually Renny_H messes up. And this girl was so nice to me, sympathetic and stuff. I felt pretty weak when I said it though. I don't know. I just thought it was wimpy and she wouldn't respect me. But damn, I was nervous and I guess it was brave so thanks for the support, Fofinha! Link to post Share on other sites
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