jai2010 Posted March 6, 2011 Share Posted March 6, 2011 (edited) So about 6 yrs ago i met this friend who had a thing for me we would flirt but it was never rubbing or kissing just compliments and giggles...A yr later I was married and pregnant...A yr after that he was married and going to be a father...throughout this time we kept constant contact and the mild flirting became outward discussions of whether or not we would cheat on our spouses. About 3 mnths ago i moved back to texas from NY to get away from my MIL (my husband stayed since he has a contract)I caught up with my friend and now he is divorced but dating someone...Since I now have "freedom" to do whatever i please, I began having an affair with my friend. So far everything is going smoothly except the battle with my conscience i want to have my cake and eat it too but right now my cake isnt all that awesome because im now a lying cheater...and i feel guilty after but not during, I cant leave him alone and he cant either but I dont want to be with him, we just have great sexual chemistry...any outside view/opinion is welcome... Edited March 6, 2011 by jai2010 Link to post Share on other sites
skywriter Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 jai, If I were you, I'd prepare myself for reality, now. You know cake eating will eventually catch up with you, so preparation is necessary, asap. If you want to have a future with your husband, without revealing what you've been doing, you should decrease contact with your "friend". You should consider no contact with him when your husband arrives. Link to post Share on other sites
skywriter Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 Hey jai, What's up with your comment about, having "freedom" to do what you please? Link to post Share on other sites
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