mr heartbroken Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Hey, It's been just over two years since my ex ended it. I recently had to speak to her mum (she had to come into my work). Her mumtold me that she had split fromher new man and that she kinda thinks she has realised her mistakes..... We kinda made general chat and she came out with this. I won't lie i haven't gotten over my ex.. It's kinda Fecked with my head a bit.........
valdeetz1 Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Thats a long time to still be hung up. It could be fate- who knows. I wouldn't get all your hopes up just based on that. Maybe see if she contacts you? I would say contact her, but it might be weird. You never know. I don't know the situation but I know my ex's mom loves me, and if she saw me and my ex was single or whatever she'd probably try to play match maker... But hey- you never know if you dont try. Maybe you will be a better fit now, or maybe you will meet her again and realize you've grown in different directions.
LexiArcher Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 If it makes you feel any better, I also am at the two year point post-breakup, and I am still hurting, loving, and missing him terribly. It's so painful. Love is so painful, especially when one loves with all their heart. I hope your situation brings you peace, whatever the outcome.
Denillad Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 I too have been broken up for 2 years with ex but we have been in contact on and off till the end if January when I changed my number and am tryin to move on. He has been in relationship for pretty much all that time. In our last convo he said he was happy in his relationship but yet he wanted to have sex with me. I feel like I don't know this man anymore. I think of him every day and am struggling to move on. It been 5 wks of nc and I'm done with the crumbs but I struggle to get him out of my head. I think about him or the several times a day. I'm so afraid I'll never get over this. I know it's hard, I wait for them to see of he would come back m it just hurt me more. If u do decide to break the ice n say hi, o think you should let her make the moves.
LexiArcher Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 I too have been broken up for 2 years with ex but we have been in contact on and off till the end if January when I changed my number and am tryin to move on. He has been in relationship for pretty much all that time. In our last convo he said he was happy in his relationship but yet he wanted to have sex with me. I feel like I don't know this man anymore. I think of him every day and am struggling to move on. It been 5 wks of nc and I'm done with the crumbs but I struggle to get him out of my head. I think about him or the several times a day. I'm so afraid I'll never get over this. I know it's hard, I wait for them to see of he would come back m it just hurt me more. If u do decide to break the ice n say hi, o think you should let her make the moves. I just wanted to say that you aren't alone in this, and that I so closely relate. This man is still so alive in my head, and I also, think of him constantly. But we are worth so much more than crumbs! You are a wonderful, valuable person, and you deserve joy and mirrored love, from someone capable and competent of providing it. Me, too. I hope we both move through our pain, and emerge stronger, more beautiful people. I'll be praying for you. I know what it's like.
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