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thinkingtoomuch

i'm interested to get a take on this conversation:

 

bf - lines up photographs of my 2 girlfriends and myself..

'look at that bunch of reprobates all living in this apartment'

 

me - i put his photo to the side

'and theres you'

 

bf - 'but i'm not a permanent resident'

 

me - 'thats why i put you to one side'

 

i mentioned this to my friend and she thinks hes angling to talk about him moving in, he lives with his parents and has never moved out. i think he was just messing about with the photos.

 

i keep missing the comments he makes which cue an opening for a discussion about where we are going because i dont think quickly enough or just clamp my mouth shut in shyness.

 

do you think was that a loaded comment? i dont want to mention it to him in case i scare him off, its only been 5 months!!!

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if you are not ready to talk openly about moving in, you are not ready to move in.

 

it's my take he was just messing about; even if the gesture was laden with meaning it's too soon to push.

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