xxxangelxxx Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 okay folks this is a long one . . . hi (by the way) and thanks for taking the time to read this. . . i have been with my guy for almost 2 years . . . and well i like many girls am a pain in the ass . . . i start fights for no reason and well i’m trying to change that to make my relationship work . . . however during one of our last fights i went overboard . . . i made a terrible mistake and well had a fit that one can only imagine . . . now his parents hate me . . . and don’t want us to be together . . . when i ask him he says he wants to continue it and he wants to fix things . . . but he wants to keep it from his parents . . . i don’t want that . . . i love him and i want his family to respect us . . . i think its wrong to go behind there backs . . . he says he loves me but he’s been very distant lately . . . i’ll say i love you and he wont respond or he will say it after i repeat myself or ask him to say it . . . i know he’s under a lot of stress cuz he is looking for a job and his parents have been nagging on him for that too. . . he wants us to stay hidden for ‘a bit’ as he puts it . . . but i want to fix things . . . i want to go talk to his parents and he wont go with me and says ‘do what you want ’ . . . i’m so lost . . . i don’t know where to go or who to turn too . . . i tell him that and he says ‘i don’t see why things are fine’ . . . i think i’m going to go talk to his parents what do you think? . . . what should i do . . . i love him more than anything and want things to work out . . . Link to post Share on other sites
bittersweet Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 First of all- how was your relationship with his parents before the fight? Also, how bad did you flip out? Do you mind saying what it was that caused the argument and what you did to make his parents react that way? What does he say to them about your relationship to them? I think that it depends on how serious you two are and the type of fights you two get in. If they keep happening even if you make amends, they will have less respect for you. If you argue b/c of things that are petty then you need to let them go for the sake of his parent's blessings. On the other hand, if you guys argue b/c of things that HE is doing, then maybe you had the right to express how you felt, regardless of what his parents take it as. Link to post Share on other sites
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