sexyrunwaymodel1 Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 i have liked this guy for nine years and he is a friend of my brothers and a couple of months ago he told me he had liked me for five years but never said anyhing becuase my brother would always tease him but he ad a girlfriend when he told me so we started to see each other then when he broke up with his girlfirend we started to go out the relationship was so great we were always together but then he got into a car accident and a couple of days later he said that we sould take abreak because he felt like he wasnt going to go to heavon (he is a strong christian)because of the relationship that we had but i want him back so bad i see him ever thursday and sunday at church and talk on the phone almost everyday but it hurts to know that we are just friends but how do i get him back what do i say help me someone please.... Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 whoa, slow down. he broke up with you because he thought you would prevent him from going to heaven? can you post again with just the facts seperated coherently? i want to help, but i am confused as to what actually happened. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 Please punctuate your sentences. Please separate your paragraphs. You cannot control someone else. If he wants to break up then you need to accept it and move on. You don't want to be with someone who does not feel about you the way you feel about them. You will only end up being hurt even more than you are hurting now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sexyrunwaymodel1 Posted March 30, 2004 Author Share Posted March 30, 2004 i know that i should move on but it is hard i love him so much i just want to find ways for hime to like me back do u have any ideas??? Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 you can't "make" someone do something against their will, unless you plan to put a gun to his head and say "love me, or else"! seriously, though, if he's had a change of heart -- and for religious reasons at that -- you'd be smart to just let him go, no matter how your heart breaks. read through some of the other posts on this board, about respecting the "no contact" rules. Whether or not he has a change of heart, he will respect you for not trying to change his mind and giving him breathing space. Link to post Share on other sites
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