Odradek Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 Here's another good one. My ex gf and I have the same friends and are together in college (and will be for at least another year). She has a new guy and he's also in college, so he hangs out with our crowd a lot. Despite the fact that I hate his guts (I hated his guts even before he became my replacement), I've tried to keep it cool and be normal when I'm with my friends and they (my ex and her new guy) are around, but I have to confess altho it's not hurtful anymore, it's still pretty uncomfortable. How should I deal with THAT? Link to post Share on other sites
dixiepix Posted March 30, 2004 Share Posted March 30, 2004 Continue to keep your cool. I've been in those situations. So what she found someone else. Look what she lost...you. There is someone out there for everone. You just haven't found the right one...and by coincidence, she probably hasn't either. College days are fun, yet too short. Don't have a pity party when your around the two of them. Enjoy college days while you can, they only happen once and for only a short time, then real life and real responsibility come in to play. Dwell instead in the fun and good times you'll miss out on if you don't pretend like the two of you never even had a thing. You are much more likely to attract someone else when you are having a good time, despite your inner feelings. It will eventually get easier and easier Link to post Share on other sites
Author Odradek Posted April 1, 2004 Author Share Posted April 1, 2004 Good advice man, sounds to me like you know what you're talking about. However, if there are some other of you who've been through this sort of stuff, I'll appreciate any advice or just to hear what your experience was. Link to post Share on other sites
Davey Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 My 1.5 year girlfriend broke up with me only days ago and shes already got a new man. Whats worse is I live with her in a student house. Whats even worse is that all my mates have buggered off and screwed the landlord over so they are going to court, thus leaving me on my own. Whats even worse than that is I can hear them both in her room next door! I am not exactly finding it the best environment to get over a relationship in. Link to post Share on other sites
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