any obsessive thinkers think this site is triggering?

[pav186]

I was just wondering if anyone who has obsessive thoughts finds this site triggering at all. Sometimes I feel like by coming to this site it keeps everything in the front of my mind, but other times i think its just that I tend to come here when things are bothering me... kinda like the chicken or the egg thing.

 

idk just a random thought i had today and didnt know if anyone else thought the same thing...

[Thinkalot]

I've thought about that too pav. My mum and bf have even wondered if coming and reading stuff on here, keeps stuff alive and at the front ofmy mind.

 

But you know, I think we come here when we NEED the advice, support, to ground us. When I'm having a good run, I tend to come here too, but just to chat and help others out, not to focus on myself. When I'm having a bad day, the advice on here pulls me back down to earth.

 

Use it wisely, and LS can help. I felt I was becoming TOO dependent a while back, and I stepped back a little. I'm happy with the balance now.

 

Stand back for a while if you think it will help, and come here when you know you NEED to hear outside advice. We all need the helping hand sometimes, and you probably come here during those times.

[average guy]

I've noticed that people tend to expose themselves to whatever hurt them (or similar situations) to uncounsiously test if they "are over it" or to see if they handle it better. I know I do

 

Cheers,

 

A.G.